Life: It Goes On - May 31

Happy Sunday! It's sunny here this morning, but too wet yet to get outside and work. We've been getting some nice rains this past week, largely during the night, which is lovely. My plants are flourishing. Which, of course, inspired me to buy more.  The Big Guy just shook his head when I came in with another dozen on Friday. Still the cheapest therapy money can buy! 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: The Stationery Shop by Marjan Kamali and I started Sarah Water's The Paying Guests. 

Watched: So many NCAA softball and baseball games, including both Nebraska teams. I also watched five episodes of the latest, and last, season of Emily in Paris. Last night we went with friends to see the movie Tuner, starring Dustin Hoffman and Leo Woodall (who I had previously only known as "the boy" in Bridget Jones: Made About The Boy). I didn't know anything about the movie when we went and was wondering what my friend had gotten me into when the movie got very tense; but we really enjoyed it. 

Read: A Lesser Light by Peter Geye. It's a biggie so it's taking me a while. 

Made: Grinder pasta (as seen on Applesauce and ADHD's social media). It made a huge batch so we got three suppers out of it and a lunch! 

Enjoyed: I had Friday off work and I used a good chunk of the day to start working on my office. I made such good progress that I was inspired to continue this weekend. I'll finish today, having gone through every single thing in that room. I am getting rid of so much in there and feeling so much lighter because of it. 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: I need to finish up the furniture painting outside and then I'll be focused on getting some small projects done inside in anticipation of being the location of a bridal shower for Miss C being hosted by my sister and sister-in-law. Nothing like an event at your house to push you to get things done you've been putting off! 

Thinking About: June is Pride Month and I'm thinking about books to read and events to attend in support. 

Feeling: Accomplished. 

Looking forward to: Another quiet week on the calendar. 

Question of the week: What book have you read recently that you are recommending to everyone? 

The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman

The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman

Read by Lesley Manville

12 hours 26 minutes

Published September 2020 by Viking Press

Publisher’s Summary: 

Four septuagenarians with a few tricks up their sleeves
A female cop with her first big case
A brutal murder
Welcome to...
THE THURSDAY MURDER CLUB

In a peaceful retirement village, four unlikely friends meet weekly in the Jigsaw Room to discuss unsolved crimes; together they call themselves the Thursday Murder Club.

When a local developer is found dead with a mysterious photograph left next to the body, the Thursday Murder Club suddenly find themselves in the middle of their first live case.

As the bodies begin to pile up, can our unorthodox but brilliant gang catch the killer, before it's too late?

My Thoughts: 

Both this book and the Netflix adaptation where recommended to me by my dad; it was the last book he ever recommended to me and I would have read it, whether or not I thought it was something that would appeal to me. As you know, my dad was an avid reader; he was also an avid viewer of Netflix movies and series. When he discovered that the book that his care home's book club was reading had been adapted for Netflix, he decided to make it a read/watch combo. I'm glad I took his recommendation on both the book and the adaptation, which stars Helen Mirren, Ben Kingsley, and Pierce Brosnan. 

The older I get, the more I enjoy about older people, especially those who are living their best lives, being useful and clever and not just accepting that it's time to sit back and get out of the way. This group of friends combines their skills (and the smarts to get a police woman to work with them) to not only solve the murder, but to save the peace of the retirement village for all of the residents. It's surprisingly funny, I loved the characters, and it was twisted enough that I never saw the ending coming. Which, of course, I know is not that rare, but still 

I highly recommend the audiobook; Lesley Manville's reading is marvelous. I also highly recommend the adaptation, which is never weighed down by its all-star cast, who all shine, and stays true to the book. 

So Far Gone by Jess Walters

So Far Gone by Jess Walter

Read by Edoardo Ballerini

8 hours, 20 minutes

Published June 2025 by HarperCollins

Publisher's Summary: 

Rhys Kinnick has gone off the grid. At Thanksgiving a few years back, a fed-up Rhys punched his conspiracy-theorist son-in-law in the mouth, chucked his smartphone out a car window and fled for a cabin in the woods, with no one around except a pack of hungry raccoons.

Now Kinnick's old life is about to land right back on his crumbling doorstep. Can this failed husband and father, a man with no internet and a car that barely runs, reemerge into a broken world to track down his missing daughter and save his sweet, precocious grandchildren from the members of a dangerous militia?

With the help of his caustic ex-girlfriend, a bipolar retired detective, and his only friend (who happens to be furious with him), Kinnick heads off on a wild journey through cultural lunacy and the rubble of a life he thought he'd left behind. So Far Gone is a rollicking, razor-sharp, and moving road trip through a fractured nation, from a writer who has been called “a genius of the modern American moment” (Philadelphia Inquirer).

My Thoughts: 

I first started reading Jess Walter's work in 2010, when the publisher offered me Walter's The Financial Lives of Poets for review. I still newish to blogging and thrilled to accept almost any book that was offered to me, but I'd already learned not to have high hopes for books that were offered to bloggers with small followings. That book took me completely by surprise; I was impressed with Walter's ability to find humor in the roughest of times and his ability to make a really tough time readable and believable. 

I didn't hesitate, then, when I was offered his 2012 novel, Beautiful Ruins, for review, which became in big critical success. In 2020 I listened to his novel, The Cold Millions. Here's what I had to say about that: 

"We love some authors because we know what to expect from them. Walter is different; I love his books because they are all so different. And yet his writing only gets better and better."

Nothing has changed since then. Although the plot of this book is completely different from his other books, I think the writing here is better than ever. The characters are real people, the relationships feel real, and the nothing here that seems unbelievable. There are heroes, but no super heroes; there are villains, but they seem like people we've all seen on the news and social media lately.  are made that feel completely true to the character who makes them; no one here is perfect, but not all of them are ready to admit that; there is humor, grit, tension, and real emotion. 

And if all of that weren't enough to recommend this book, I highly recommend the audiobook version. Never pass on the audiobook when Edoardo Ballerini is reading it. 

Life: It Goes On - May 24

Happy Sunday! We have had so much rain in the past ten days that everything is growing like crazy and looking so lush and beautiful outside. Today is going to be a sunny, warm day, perfect for getting back outside and getting the final touches done in back. I still have some pieces of furniture to paint, some seeds to get planted, and some hosta to get transplanted. Then maybe there will be time to sit and enjoy what we've gotten done. Until I think of another project for out there, anyway! 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: I finished Patrick Suskind's Perfume and got back to John Williams' Stoner. 

Watched: Lots of college baseball and softball, the first episode of season two of Running Point, and a couple more episodes of The Morning Show. 

Read: I started Peter Geye's A Lesser Light, which I'm really enjoying. Unfortunately, I'm also struggling to make myself pick up a book to read. 

Made: It's burger season so we've had burgers a couple of days this week (mostly because the Big Guy would eat burgers four times a week if I let him), salads, nachos, and pasta. The usual tings to have when you don't really feel like cooking. I hope I get my cooking mojo back one of these days!

Enjoyed: Dinner out with friends Thursday evening and an overnight stay from my brother and SIL on their way up to her hometown. 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: Finishing yard projects for the next couple of days and then I really need to get some work done in my office and downstairs. 

Thinking About: Mini-him and Miss C are moving into a house in a couple of months which has me thinking about what I can get out of my house that they might be able to use now that they'll have a third bedroom and a basement. 

Feeling: I wasn't feeling well yesterday and was so hoping that I wouldn't be sick all weekend. I'm happy to find that I'm feeling much better today and much more productive. 

Looking forward to: Another three-day weekend next weekend. 

Question of the week: For Memorial Day, do you visit the graveyards where your family members are buried? We will likely head to Lincoln tomorrow to put flowers on my parents' graves and then head to the cemetery where many of my ancestors were buried for nearly one hundred years. 

Life: It Goes On - May 17

Happy Sunday! It's sunny here this morning; but, for the third night in a row, severe thunderstorms are predicted for later. My potted plants and all of our outdoor furniture and up against the house for protection, where they'll stay until Tuesday when the last threat of storms has passed. I spent WAY too much on those plants to have them destroyed by hail this early in the season! I have managed to get most of the touch up painting done during the days, at least. 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: I finished Michelle Obama's The Light We Carry. Now I'm back to Patrick Suskind's Perfume, which I'll finish this week. Next up, I'll finish John William's Stoner. 

Watched: A lot of NCAA softball and baseball. I also started season 2 of The Morning Show.

Read: Lili King's Heart The Lover, which is our book club selection for June. Now I've started Peter Geye's latest, A Lesser Light. Geye's books are favorites of mine, as well as the Big Guy. 

Made: Nothing notable. It's been another week of pasta, salads, and take out. 

Enjoyed: A relatively lazy week. 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: On finishing up the outside painting and planting projects. Then it's on to doing some projects in the house in preparation for a bridal shower my sister and sister-in-law will be hosting here in early July. Nothing like an event to make you do the home projects you've been putting off! 

Thinking About: What it's going to take to get me to finish up all of the book reviews I have started! 

Feeling: Rested. 

Looking forward to: Two three-day weekends in a row coming up.

Question of the week: Do you have big plans for Memorial Day weekend?