Life: It Goes On - March 22

Happy spring?! Yesterday it was 94 degrees here. We ate dinner on the patio, but had to cut our time short out there because we were getting too warm. Crazy for March; in fact, a new all-time high for March in Omaha. Also hard to believe it's spring when we're having fires in this state that we typically wouldn't see until August; thanks to a very dry winter and high winds of late, we've had the biggest fires the state has ever seen. 

Mind you, a week ago, we were in a blizzard warning. 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: Since I last updated, I finished The Silver Linings Playbook, started Perfume (but had to return it before I finished it), and I'm now listening to Stoner, by John Williams. 

Watched: So. Much. Collage Basketball! I love to watch all of the games, mens and women's. But the highlight so far has been our Husker men winning their first ever NCAA tournament game and then a second game that puts them into the Sweet 16. Nebraska fans traveled en masse to Oklahoma City so make that arena feel like a home game - it's been so exciting to watch them this weekend. 

Read: Claire Lombard's Same As It Ever Was. 

Made: Since I last wrote, we had company for about a week and while they were here I made coffee cake, cinnamon rolls, and lasagna. Yesterday I made Jeff Daniel's favorite sandwich, which has been all over social media. If you haven't seen it, it's a pita with a thick layer of peanut butter on one side, topped with crunched up cheddar and sour cream chips and bbq sauce. Sounds so weird, but I liked it. The Big Guy wasn't as big a fan. 

Enjoyed: Despite the fact that my sister and brother-in-law were here for his father's funeral, we had plenty of time with them to catch up. 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: I think this will be a pretty quiet week so I'm hoping to get back to doing some decluttering. 

Thinking About: Meatloaf. I've been wanting meatloaf for a couple of weeks now - I think it's time to finally make it. What a strange thing to crave. 

Feeling: We've had a lazy weekend, putzing away on things to be done and taking naps. It's been wonderful! 

Looking forward to: Book club Tuesday to discuss Laura Prescott's The Secrets We Kept. 

Question of the week: Are you a March Madness fan? 

The Bookbinder's Secret by A.D. Bell

The Bookbinder's Secret by A.D. Bell

400 pages

Published January 2026 by St. Martin's Press

My copy courtesy of the publisher, through NetGalley, in exchange for an honest review

Publisher's Summary: 

Lilian ("Lily") Delaney, apprentice to a master bookbinder in Oxford in 1901, chafes at the confines of her life. She is trapped between the oppressiveness of her father’s failing bookshop and still being an apprentice in a man’s profession. But when she’s given a burned book during a visit to a collector, she finds, hidden beneath the binding, a fifty-year-old letter speaking of love, fortune, and murder.

Lily is pulled into the mystery of the young lovers, a story of forbidden love, and discovers there are more books and more hidden pages telling their story. Lilian becomes obsessed with the story but she is not the only one looking for the remaining books and what began as a diverting intrigue quickly becomes a very dangerous pursuit.

Lily's search leads her from the eccentric booksellers of London to the private libraries of unscrupulous collectors and the dusty archives of society papers, deep into the heart of the mystery. But with sinister forces closing in, willing to do anything for the books, Lilian’s world begins to fall apart and she must decide if uncovering the truth is worth the risk to her own life.

My Thoughts: 

As you know, I often don't read the summary of books (although I must have at some point in order for me to choose this book for review); in this case, it meant it took me a while to figure out what time period in which the book was set. I kept thinking it was a century earlier, which made the fact that Lily was a bookbinder in training even more astounding. 

Even so, a woman in a trade in the first part of the 20th century was remarkable and I enjoyed learning about bookbinding through her. I think we can all recognize the difference between a well bound book and a cheaply bound one but knowing what steps make the difference was intriguing. In Lily's case, the books being individually bound meant that the bookbinder chose the design of the cover so it's conceivable that no two copies of any book remaining from that time period would have the same cover. 

The initial mystery of the first book Lily got pulled me into the story, but I will admit that I was a little confused about how Lily became so obsessed with that first book that she was willing to risk her life and her safety because of it. Because someone else wants that book and wants her to find the remaining five books related to it...in fact, they demand that she find them or they will come after her father, who is already fragile. Here's the next point I struggled with - why would the person who wanted the books assume that Lily would be better able to find them than that person would? Overlooking those points, this story takes readers along on Lily's race to find all six of the books while she also races to find out the reason they are so important and what because of the young lovers whose story is told in those hidden pages. Along the way, we learn that Lily is not the good girl so many heroines of books set in this time period are and it makes her a much more interesting person for it. We're also introduced to a cast of interesting characters, some not so savory, most with secrets of their own. 

I haven't been reading as much historical fiction lately as I used to and this one made me wonder why. I'm always fascinated to go back in time so that we can see how far we've come. Thanks to St. Martin's Press for giving me this history lesson. 

Where The Girls Were by Kate Schatz

Where The Girls Were by Kate Schatz

368 pages

Published March 2026 by The Dial Press

My copy courtesy of the publisher, through NetGalley, in exchange for an honest review

Publisher's Summary: 

It’s 1968, and the future is bright for seventeen-year-old Elizabeth “Baker” Phillips: She’s the valedictorian of her high school, with a place at Stanford in the fall and big dreams of becoming a journalist. But the seductive free-spirited San Francisco atmosphere seeps into her carefully planned, strait-laced life in the form of a hippie named Wiley. At first, letting loose and letting herself fall in love for the first time feels incredible. But then, everything changes.

Pregnancy hits Baker with the force of whiplash—in the blink of an eye, she goes from good girl to fallen woman, from her family’s shining star to their embarrassing secret. Without any other options, Baker is sent to a home for unwed mothers, and finds herself trapped in an old Victorian house packed with pregnant girls who share her shame and fear. As she grapples with her changing body, lack of choice, and uncertain future, Baker finds unexpected community and empowerment among the “girls who went away.”

Where the Girls Were is a timely unearthing of a little-known moment in American history, when the sexual revolution and feminist movement collided with the limits of reproductive rights—and society's expectations of women. As Baker finds her strength and her voice, she shows us how to step into your power, even when the world is determined to keep you silent.

My Thoughts: 

This one is timely, as more and more we appear headed back to the time where choice was taken away from women and women and girls were forced to have babies. We've all heard the stories about women and girls who died from botched abortions performed by unqualified people in unsanitary conditions. But what of the girls who chose, or were forced, to carry their babies to term? What were the places like where these girls disappeared to for months? 

Baker was a "good" girl. She knew what she wanted for her future. She knew what her parents expected of her; and, even though she didn't plan exactly the future they wanted, she knew she would make good. But even good girls want to have fun sometimes and even good girls make mistakes. Because she'd always been so focused on her education and reaching her goals, Baker doesn't have the kinds of friends most high school aged girls do. So when the worst happens, she's left without any support. Even her cousin, May, who introduced her to Wiley, can't help. 

When her mother finds out, she takes charge and Baker finds herself in a home for unwed mothers. Even there the girls are made to feel "less than," the leadership more concerned about making the home look good than in helping the girls. At first Baker is utterly detached from the baby growing inside of her, calling it "The Bun." She has is woefully naive about pregnancy and childbirth. But the home leads Baker to the kinds of friends she's never had and a determination to do help them in some way. 

While the book can be a little overly dramatic, and there's a storyline about a former resident that I felt was unnecessary, I enjoyed reading about how Baker navigated her reality and the stories of the other girls in the home. I appreciated what Schatz left out of the book, as much as I did what she included. And I really liked the way the book ended; we don't get all of the answers, but those answers aren't really important to the book. 

Life: It Goes On - March 8

Happy Sunday! I'm looking forward to a sunny, warm day here in Omaha - doors and windows will be thrown open! While it's going to be a one off and the temps will drop 20 degrees the rest of the week, days like this tell me spring is just around the corner. 

We were forecast to have severe storms on Friday evening but entirely dodged those so I completely relaxed...until Miss H sent me a photo of the t.v. screen showing that she was in a tornado warning in K.C. The funnel moved across town in a line that basically covered every place she's lived in that area. I can't believe my mama spidey sense didn't already have me paying attention to the weather down there. Am I losing my mama skills?! 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: I finished Kevin Wilson's Run For The Hills and started Matthew Quick's The Silver Linings Playbook, which I'm about half way through. Next up is Patrick Suskind's Perfume. 

Watched: We've started watching season 2 of Wednesday and I'm sorry to say that we're not enjoying it as much as we did season 1. It feels like there's just too much going on in this one. 

Read: I finished Kate Schatz's Where The Girls Were and started Melanie Benjamin's The Windsor Affair, which I will finish today. Next up is Claire Lombardo's Same As It Ever Was. 

Made: A "use everything in the refrigerator" pasta (asparagus, mushrooms, spinach, chicken off of three drumsticks) and Korean bbq and rice with asparagus. If two people buy a whole bundle of asparagus, it will be consumed over the span of a few days. 

Enjoyed: A friend and I went to hear Anna Quindlen speak on Tuesday and she was really terrific, clearly someone who has been doing this thing for a long time. Also, dinner last night with the Big Guy at one of our favorite places. 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: It's going to be another week of paperwork and decluttering. 

Thinking About: Gardening and what changes we want to make in our gardens and outdoor living spaces this year. 

Feeling: Sad for my sister's family today; her father-in-law passed away this morning. Hard for them to lose both dad's in about four months. 

Looking forward to: Sunshine later into the days! I know some of you hate daylight savings time, but I live for it. 

Question of the week: We've been doing a lot of mattress research this week and every time I think we've settled on "the one," we read another site that says that one's not as good as another one. What do you have and would you recommend it? 

Bellman and Black by Diane Setterfield

Bellman and Black by Diane Setterfield

336 pages

Published November 2013 by Atria/Emily Bestler Books

Publisher’s Summary: 

Caught up in a moment of boyhood competition, William Bellman recklessly aims his slingshot at a rook resting on a branch, killing the bird instantly. It is a small but cruel act, and is soon forgotten. By the time he is grown, with a wife and children of his own, William seems to have put the whole incident behind him. It was as if he never killed the thing at all. But rooks don’t forget…

Years later, when a stranger mysteriously enters William’s life, his fortunes begin to turn—and the terrible and unforeseen consequences of his past indiscretion take root. In a desperate bid to save the only precious thing he has left, he enters into a rather strange bargain, with an even stranger partner. Together, they found a decidedly macabre business.

And Bellman & Black is born.

My Thoughts: 

This one has been sitting in my virtual TBR pile since before it was published. For some reason, it just never managed to rise up to the top of the pile. But, since I had gotten it originally through NetGalley and never written a review, I decided it was time to remedy that. 

This was my third book by Setterfield (I previously read The Thirteenth Tale and Once Upon a River. Going back over my reviews of those two books, I find that I feel very much the same about this one as I did those two. There are parts that are very intriguing and drew me in; but, overall, I felt that it was uneven. In this one, I also felt that I never quite "got" what Setterfield was trying to tell me. Why would a man, who as a young boy had done something that so many young boys do, be punished for the rest of his life for it? Why does the source of his misery also allow him to become so very successful in his career? Why does it kill off the people his was with that fateful morning - why do they deserve to die to punish him? And why spread their deaths out so far as to appear as though they were not related at all? And why take so long to punish him at all? Why wait until he is a grown man, happily married, with a family he adores and a career he excels at? 

Far more questions than answers for me. I'm not opposed to having a book raise questions that stick with me after finishing the book. But this doesn't strike me as the type of book that's aiming to do that, nor the types of questions that an author would typically raise to cause a reader to think more deeply. 

So I'm sorry to say that this isn't a book I'd recommend, although I did enjoy much of the writing and a great deal of the story.