Tuesday, January 16, 2024

The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street by Helene Hand

The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street
by Helene Hanff
137 pages 
Published March 1973 by Lippincott Williams and Wilkins

Publisher's Summary: 
When devoted Anglophile Helene Hanff is invited to London for the English publication of 84, Charing Cross Road—in which she shares two decades of correspondence with Frank Doel, a British bookseller who became a dear friend—she can hardly believe her luck. Frank is no longer alive, but his widow and daughter, along with enthusiastic British fans from all walks of life, embrace Helene as an honored guest. Eager hosts, including a famous actress and a retired colonel, sweep her up in a whirlwind of plays and dinners, trips to Harrod’s, and wild jaunts to their favorite corners of the countryside. 

A New Yorker who isn’t afraid to speak her mind, Helene Hanff delivers an outsider’s funny yet fabulous portrait of idiosyncratic Britain at its best. And whether she is walking across the Oxford University courtyard where John Donne used to tread, visiting Windsor Castle, or telling a British barman how to make a real American martini, Helene always wears her heart on her sleeve. The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street is not only a witty account of two different worlds colliding but also a love letter to England and its literary heritage—and a celebration of the written word’s power to sustain us, transport us, and unite us.

My Thoughts: 
I knew I was forgetting a book when I did my mini-reviews the last week of December, trying to finish reviewing all of the books that I had read in 2023. Maybe this one just demanded to have its own review. 

It took me fifty years to finally read Helene Hanff's most famous work, 84, Charing Cross Road. I was charmed, as millions of others have been; but it didn't occur to me to find anything else Hanff had written.  Last year, when this book was brought to my attention, I was delighted to discover it and get a chance to read more of Hanff's work. 

Whilst 84, Charing Cross Road is entirely an epistolary work, composed of letters primarily between Hanff and London bookseller Frank Dole, The Duchess of Bloomsbury Street is Hanff's memoir of fulfilling her dream to travel to London, a diary she was encouraged to write by a friend. 

Although Frank died three years before Hanff was finally able to make the trip (and Marks and Co was no longer in business), her correspondence with Frank had led her to correspond with his wife, his daughter, and other employees of Marks & Co. Not only that, but the success of 84, Charing Cross Road and led Hanff to "meet" many other people in England who wanted the chance to meet her and show her the country. So, when she finally arrived, she was flooded with people who wanted to take her to dinner, to show her the sites, to ensure that she saw all that she longed to see, not necessarily just the touristy things. Their generosity allowed Hanff to stay in England longer than she had thought her money would last. 

Hanff was an interesting lady; she was a bit of a recluse who also seemed to attract people to her. More than one of the people she met in England arranged to meet up with her again and to take her on outings outside of London. She was unfashionable when it came to her clothes, but liked to make sure her hair was just so. She was witty, intelligent and had strong and often unusual opinions.
"I despair of ever getting it through anybody's head I am not interested in bookshops, I am interested in what's written in the books. I don't want to browse in bookshops, I browse in libraries, where you can take a book home and read it, and if you like it you go to a bookshop and buy it."

 Once again I come away from Hanff's book thinking that she was a woman I would very much have enjoyed getting to know. This one will make you long to do a better job of chronicling your own travels; London comes alive in Hanff's capable hands, as do the people she met. When I finished 84, Charing Cross Road, I suggested that it was a book I would definitely read again. When I do, I'll reread this one as well.  

 

Sunday, January 14, 2024

Life: It Goes On - January 14

Happy Sunday from arctic Nebraska! I know the Rodger's and Hammerstein song says that the wind goes sweeping down the plain in Oklahoma; but let me tell you, it's been sweeping through all of the plains the past couple of days, making already frigid temps that much worse. We'd had almost no winter weather at all until Christmas Day, but it's definitely here now. We've had about 14" of snow this week. Fortunately, it was warm enough last Monday that the snow was melting as fast as it fell so what's left is not 14" deep...except where the wind has created giant snowdrifts, some several feet tall.  I haven't left the house since Thursday; I'm not looking forward to going outside in a couple of hours! 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: I'm back to Mary Doria Russell's Children of God. I had such high hopes for it, having loved The Sparrow, but this one bounces around all over the place, making it hard for me to settle into it. 

Watched:
 Football, college football, the first episode of season 6 of The Crown, and the first episode of Northern Exposure (a show, set in Alaska, that we loved when it first aired in the 1990's). Of course it comes out on Amazon Prime now...we just bought the DVD set for our Alaskan kids. 

Read: Caitlin Moran's latest, What About Men (Moran always makes me laugh AND gives me a lot to think about) and I started Melanie Benjamin's latest, California Golden, this month's book club book. I think I've read all of Benjamin's books and I'm always impressed by the variety of stories she finds to tell. Have you seen the trailer for Feud: Capote vs. the Swans? It's based on a different book but I'm looking forward to seeing it, having read Benjamin's The Swans of Fifth Avenue. 

Made: Apparently all it took to get me cooking again was a good cold snap. Friday I made two soups: ham and potato (possibly the best potato soup I've ever made) and turkey and noodle (which we will have today for the first time). Yesterday I used up a couple of sweet potatoes to try a recipe I found on Instagram; it's definitely one we'll do again, although it's a little tedious to make. While that was cooking, we tossed in a couple more sweet potatoes and those will get turned into sweet potato soup today, something we've never tried before. 

Enjoyed: Because of the weather, I opted to work from home on Friday. Except that the internet was hit and miss. So I only ended up working a couple of hours and got most of the day as an unexpected day off. I love days like those. I decided to take full advantage of the time to get a lot of little things done. 

This Week I’m:  

Planning: We have pretty well locked down plans for my dad's move to his new place. Now it'a a matter of sorting through his things to decide what's going to make the move so I'll be going over to his current apartment a couple of times this week to get those decisions made. 

Thinking About: Remember last week, when I hushed my family room? I'll be honest, the emptiness of the room made me a little twitchy. But it was a great chance to really rethink what was in there (although it took me a stupid amount of time to get it put back together again!). Now I'm thinking about what room to do next, which room I'd most like to refresh. 

Feeling: Much more relaxed, now that we have a plan in place for my dad. 

Looking forward to: Book club on Tuesday. And also April, because I'm already over winter. 

Question of the week: If you found yourself with an unexpected day off, how would you choose to use it? Would you take advantage of it to knock off chores you haven't had time for or would you use it as a day to just relax, to read a book, watch a Netflix series, paint a watercolor? 

Tuesday, January 9, 2024

The Measure by Nikki Erlick

The Measure
by Nikki Erlick 
Read by Julia Whelan
10 hours, 57 minutes
Published June 2022 by HarperCollins Publishers

Publisher's Summary: 
Eight ordinary people. One extraordinary choice.

It seems like any other day. You wake up, pour a cup of coffee, and head out.

But today, when you open your front door, waiting for you is a small wooden box. This box holds your fate inside: the answer to the exact number of years you will live.

From suburban doorsteps to desert tents, every person on every continent receives the same box. In an instant, the world is thrust into a collective frenzy. Where did these boxes come from? What do they mean? Is there truth to what they promise?

As society comes together and pulls apart, everyone faces the same shocking choice: Do they wish to know how long they'll live? And, if so, what will they do with that knowledge?

The Measure charts the dawn of this new world through an unforgettable cast of characters whose decisions and fates interweave with one another: best friends whose dreams are forever entwined, pen pals finding refuge in the unknown, a couple who thought they didn't have to rush, a doctor who cannot save himself, and a politician whose box becomes the powder keg that ultimately changes everything.

My Thoughts: 
The Measure was recommended to me by my aunt (and another aunt and two uncles!). I originally started it in 2023 but didn't get it finished so restarted it when it became available, making it the first book I read in 2024. Let's start with what didn't work so we can finish with the good stuff, shall we? 

What Didn't Work for Me:
  • I'm sorry to say that I didn't really find myself emotionally attached to any of the characters, possibly due to the relatively large number of them (there are far more than eight, as the summary would suggest). 
  • I felt like Erlick worked too hard to make her cast of characters diverse. Black character? Check. Gay couple? Check. Evil politician to contrast to empathetic characters? Check. 
  • The ending felt rushed to me, even though I understood why Erlick skipped big periods of time at the end. 
What I Worked for Me: 
  • This book is genre defying. Is it science fiction? Not really. Is it dystopian? No. Is it magical realism? I wouldn't say so. I like a book that can't be pigeonholed. 
  • Why can't it be genre defined? Because it's a unique way to write about ideas that we think about all of the time. 
  • This one would make a great book club selection and I'm pondering whether or not to move it into my club's 2024 line up. There is so much to discuss! How would you live your life if you knew you had decades ahead of you? Would you take risks, knowing that you couldn't be killed? Would you take better care of your body, knowing it needed to take you into your 80's? Would you commit to someone who had a short-string? And what if you were a short-stringer? Would you quit your job and do all of the things you thought you had a long life to do? Would you have children, knowing you wouldn't be there for them for very long? Do you end your own life to avoid a potentially painful end? And what of society? How would people treat each other if they knew? And would you want to know?
  • At first I was annoyed that we were never going to find out where the strings came from. But I realized that where they came from was not the point. How they impacted lives was. 
  • Clearly, this book made me think and you know that I'm always going to like a book that does that. 


Sunday, January 7, 2024

Life: It Goes On - January 7

Happy Sunday! How are you all doing as you try to return to life as normal, post holidays? I've been struggling this week but I'm hoping to get back on track this coming week. After three weeks with holiday time off, I'm, at least a little bit, looking forward to getting back to normal. Well, at least as much as I can. 

There will probably be some changes around here that make it easier for me. After almost 15 years of blogging, I'm burned out on writing full reviews (and I've clearly been struggling to get them written). Shorter, more succinct reviews are coming. But I'm also hoping to get back to doing more of the fun stuff. And really hoping I can figure out why my blog feed isn't working so that I can get back to reading other people's reviews.

Last Week I: 

Listened To: Nikki Erlick's The Measure, which I finished, and Katherine May's Enchantment: Awakening Wonder In An Anxious Age, which I'm about half way through. 

Watched: Football, college basketball, Ted Lasso, Daisy Jones and The Six, and the first episode of Archie, which is about Cary Grant. 

Read: I started Jesmyn Ward's latest, Let Us Descend; but after reading the synopsis, decided I wasn't in the right frame of mind for that right now. So I picked up Caitlin Moran's latest, What About Men. 

Made: If it isn't easy, we haven't been making it (think nachos, salads, fish sticks). I suggested to BG that we haven't really cooked since before I got sick at Christmas. It might be time to fire up soups this week, as we're supposed to get our decent real snowfall tomorrow and temps are going to plummet. Winter has finally arrived. 

Enjoyed: Being mostly lazy this week. 

This Week I’m:  

Planning: 
I've long ago given up on New Year resolutions; but The Big Guy and I have made a commitment reducing the amount of "stuff" we have in the house. Both of us are too prone to accept anything that anyone wants to give us and too prone to hang on to things that we might use one day. And this girl is far too prone to hang on to anything with a sentimental attachment. So plans are in place to help us stay on track, including 40 Bags In 40 Days, calendared plans of attack from Go Simplified, and my membership in The Nester's Cozy Minimalist Community. To that end, I "hushed" my family room yesterday. Today I will begin, very deliberately, adding things back in, really considering what we need, use, and like. 

Thinking About: We're getting ready to move my dad to his new apartment and I'm busy thinking about what will move with him and what needs to find new homes. 

Feeling: Yesterday I was exhausted. I got quite a lot done, but also took several naps. Today I'm feeling more energetic. Looking out the window and seeing sunshine is helping tremendously!

Looking forward to: Getting my hair done! My stylist has been on maternity leave for 3 months and I am tired of looking like an old lady! 

Question of the week: Do you still do resolutions or are you more likely to just look at the new year as a chance to get back on track with the things you've been doing? 



Monday, January 1, 2024

Life: It Goes On - January 1

Happy New Year! In the past couple of days I've been seeing a lot of memes that talked about what a dumpster fire 2023 was; I found myself nodding in agreement. Yes, yes, I thought, 2023 has been terrible. And then I looked back at pictures from this year and was reminded of all the wonderful things we did in 2023 and all of the fun we had. Was it the best year of my life? No. But it wasn't the worst year by any stretch of the imagination. It's so easy to get caught up in the mood of social media. Instead, I'd like to focus on the good things from 2023 so I can go into a new year feeling blessed and happy. 

Best Books of the Year: 
My reading slump continues (although I recognize that what I call a slump is still quite a few books by most people's standards); I only finished 56 books in 2023. Here are some real standouts.
  • The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store by James McBride
  • Tom Lake by Ann Patchette
  • Crook Manifesto by Colton Whitehead 
  • Beartown by Fredrik Backman
  • The Storyteller: Tales of Life and Music by Dave Growl
  • A Fever In The Heartland by Timothy Egan
  • All The Beauty In The World by Patrick Bringley

Best Movies: 
We didn't get to the theater too many times in 2023 but I'm certain that these two movies would have stood out even in a crowd.
  • Barbie
  • Oppenheimer

Best Television: 
As you know, a lot of our television viewing is sports related but we also really enjoyed some series in 2023, as well. I finished Grace and Frankie, The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel and Queen Charlotte this year. 
  • The Nebraska volleyball match that set a world record for attendance of a women's sporting event. Until that very last match, the entire season was a joy to watch, but that match in the football stadium gave me goosebumps. 
  • Ted Lasso - we are parsing out the final five episodes of the series to make it last longer
  • Shrinking with Jason Segel and Harrison Ford is so funny but also deals with heavier themes
  • Wednesday

Highlights: 
  • Our trip in June to Alaska. I'm already planning a return trip, hopefully timed to see the aurora borealis. 
  • A trip to Duluth/Superior to visit my sister and her family
  • Helping Miss H move into her first place of her own. I had so much fun flipping furniture so that it would work for her and making sure she had everything she needed to make the place comfortable and very much a reflection of her. 
  • Live Broadway touring shows: Six, To Kill A Mockingbird, Tina, and Les Miserable
  • Two new tattoos, one symbolizing hope and the other family. 
Looking back over all the big things (to say nothing of all of the little things that brought joy to my life in 2023), helps me going into the coming year. Here's to a year filled with even more great books, great movies, great television, and life highlights!