As summer unfolds, startling truths are revealed about the survivors and their parents, the secrets kept, promises broken, and hearts betrayed.
Wednesday, July 30, 2025
Summerland by Elin Hilderbrand
As summer unfolds, startling truths are revealed about the survivors and their parents, the secrets kept, promises broken, and hearts betrayed.
Sunday, July 27, 2025
Life: It Goes On - July 27
I still haven't even touched the desk I bought at that auction - it's living in my dining room, just off the front hall where it's a visible reminder that I need do something with it. I keep thinking "next weekend." It wasn't this weekend. Maybe I am getting old - I definitely don't get as much done in a weekend as I used to be able to get done! The Big Guy, on the other hand, has knocked out getting the kitchen painted, which is making me so happy.
Last Week I:
Listened To: I finished B.A Shapiro's The Art Forger and just started Marie Benedict's Carnegie's Maid. Not too far into it yet, but I'm afraid I'm going to struggle with it. Fingers crossed because I really don't want to go to the effort of trying to find another book that I'm interested in that's available right now.
Watched: We went to see Superman last night. Not the kind of movie that I usually pay to see in the theater, but it's summer so why not see a summer blockbuster. Still not sure if I liked it or not - maybe too much comedy in it and I'm not sure about the dog (that felt a little Disney-esque to me).
Read: I'm about two-thirds of the way through Fredrik Backman's latest, My Friends. While I love his writing, this one took me a little while to get into the story. I am feeling like it runs on, but I am becoming quite attached to the characters.
Made: It's summer and it's the week of Mini-him's bday so the food this week reflected that: caprese pasta, BLTs, Asian chicken salad (which is not a salad, but a pasta dish that Mini-him always wants for his bday) and red velvet cake.
Enjoyed: Dinner Thursday night with Miss C's parents, the movie followed by dessert and drinks last night with friends, and birthday dinner today with Mini-him and Miss C.
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This Week I’m:
Planning: I have a renewed interest in genealogy so I've pulled out all of my old paper files and I'm working on getting those organized so I can get everything uploaded and start researching again (let's be honest, I'm alway already researching because that's really the fun part!).
Thinking About: We're required to take five days of our PTO in one block and I need to figure out when I'm going to do that and what I'm going to do in that week. A vacation would be nice, but I think our kitchen was our vacation this year! I may end up painting cabinets during that week. Or trying to knock out a big organizing project around here - like the garage or photos or the basement. I'd say that would make me as happy as sitting on a beach, but nothing makes me happier than sitting on a beach. The zinnias are bring in the
monarchs!
Feeling: Tired. My anti-depressant seems to be helping in the way it should be helping, but it makes me so tired that I tend to nap as much as possible. Not sure that's tenable long term.
Looking forward to: Visits from family this week.
Question of the week: If you had to take a week off of work but weren't going anywhere, what would you do?
Thursday, July 24, 2025
Faceless Killers (Kurt Wallander Series #1) by Henning Mankell
Unlike the situation with his ex-wife, his estranged daughter, or the beautiful but married young prosecuter who has peaked his interest, in this case, Wallander finds a problem he can handle. He quickly becomes obsessed with solving the crime before the already tense situation explodes, but soon comes to realize that it will require all his reserves of energy and dedication to solve.
Tuesday, July 22, 2025
The Fairbanks Four: Murder, Injustice, and the Birth of a Movement by Brian Patrick O'Donoghue
October, 1997. Late one night in Fairbanks, Alaska, a passerby finds a teenager unconscious, collapsed on the edge of the road, beaten nearly beyond recognition. Two days later, he dies in the hospital. His name is John Gilbert Hartman and he's just turned 15 years old. The police quickly arrest four suspects, all under the age of 21 and of Alaska Native and American Indian descent. Police lineup witnesses, trials follow, and all four men receive lengthy prison terms. Case closed.
But journalist Brian Patrick O'Donoghue can't put the story out of his mind. When the opportunity arises to teach a class on investigative reporting, he finally digs into what happened to the "Fairbanks Four." A relentless search for the truth ensues as O'Donoghue and his students uncover the lies, deceit, and prejudice that put four innocent young men in jail.
The Fairbanks Four is the gripping story of a brutal crime and its sprawling aftermath in the frigid Alaska landscape. It's a story of collective action as one journalist, his students, and the Fairbanks indigenous community challenge the verdicts. It's the story of a broken justice system, and the effort required to keep hope alive. This is the story of the Fairbanks Four.
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O'Donoghue, left; the Fairbanks Four, right |
Sunday, July 20, 2025
Life: It Goes On - July 20
First up, get things back up on top of the cupboards. I had to take everything down so Big Guy could paint the walls above the cupboards. Now the paint is dry and everything has been cleaned and I can put that part of the kitchen back together. It would be quick work if I just put things back up where they'd been...but, of course, I'm not doing that because why would I do things the easy way.
Last Week I:
Listened To: I finished Henning Mankell's Faceless Killers and then spent a couple of days trying to land on something that grabbed me quickly. Robert Edsel's The Monuments Men didn't do it. Neither did Evelyn Waugh's Brideshead Revisted (even with Jeremy Irons reading it), both books I've been wanting to read for a long time. Neither did Tracy Chevalier's The Glassmaker. Finally I landed on B. A. Shapiro's The Art Forger which did stick; a little road trip yesterday has me about half way through that now. A friend recommended Marie Benedict, so I've queued up her Carnegie's Maid to listen to next.
Watched: I had the t.v. to myself a lot this week so I watched some Queer Eye, Geek Girl (so not my usual thing but mindless so easy to watch while I'm doing other things), Oklahoma (when you've seen something a couple dozen time, it's easy to "watch" it from other rooms) and Once, because I wanted to see the movie that has a song I've loved for years in it.
Read: I'm happy to report that I'm actually reading again! I finished Elin Hilderbrand's Summerland (so unlike the book cover!) and started Fredrik Backman's My Friends.
Made: A sausage and veggie pasta, kielbasa and sauerkraut, fettuccine Alfredo, and caprese spaghetti. Wow - until just now I didn't realize how much pasta I'd eaten last week!
Enjoyed: Book club Tuesday, three evenings to myself (love BG but also love quiet nights to myself), and dinner and drinks last night with friends. We went to a Greek place that's beloved here...where I had pastichio (which includes pasta!); then we grabbed drinks at the bar where Miss C works a couple of nights a week.
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This Week I’m:
Planning: Yesterday I picked up a desk I "won" on an auction (that was an adventure!) to replace the one Miss H has been using since I bought it on Facebook Marketplace twelve years ago for $10. If I were keeping it, I'd just clean it up; it's in great shape and pretty. But she's not a fan of its color so it will either get stripped and stained a different color or painted.
Thinking About: Cabinet colors...still. Some color samples arrived this week so they have been moving around the kitchen, trying different times of day and light. I think I have the base cabinet choice narrowed down to two colors but I'm not at all sure about the uppers yet. You wouldn't think picking a white would be so hard, would you?
Feeling: I sort of accidentally stumbled into some family genealogy stuff a week ago and now I'm feeling the pull to get back to researching BG's father's side of the family again. I'd done a lot of work on it many years ago and then set it aside entirely. Now I've found some new information from almost 350 years ago that has me excited.
Looking forward to: Hoping to have our first big tomato ripe this week - there is nothing better on a BLT than a freshly picked tomato!
Question of the week: Do you garden? If so, what's your favorite thing to grow?
Thursday, July 17, 2025
Good Material by Dolly Alderton
Now he is. . .
Without a home
Waiting for his stand-up career to take off
Wondering why everyone else around him seems to have grown up while he wasn't looking
Set adrift on the sea of heartbreak, Andy clings to the idea of solving the puzzle of his ruined relationship. Because if he can find the answer to that, then maybe Jen can find her way back to him. But Andy still has a lot to learn, not least his ex-girlfriend's side of the story…
In this sharply funny and exquisitely relatable story of romantic disaster and friendship, Dolly Alderton offers up a love story with two endings, demonstrating once again why she is one of the most exciting writers today, and the true voice of a generation.
Tuesday, July 15, 2025
Long Island Compromise by Taffy Brodesser-Akner
In 1980, a wealthy businessman named Carl Fletcher is kidnapped from his driveway, brutalized, and held for ransom. He is returned to his wife and kids less than a week later, only slightly the worse, and the family moves on with their lives, resuming their prized places in the saga of the American dream, comforted in the realization that though their money may have been what endangered them, it is also what assured them their safety.
But now, nearly forty years later, it’s clear that perhaps nobody ever got over anything, after all. Carl has spent the ensuing years secretly seeking closure to the matter of his kidnapping, while his wife, Ruth, has spent her potential protecting her husband’s emotional health. Their three grown children aren’t doing much better: Nathan’s chronic fear won’t allow him to advance at his law firm; Beamer, a Hollywood screenwriter, will consume anything—substance, foodstuff, women—in order to numb his own perpetual terror; and Jenny has spent her life so bent on proving that she’s not a product of her family’s pathology that she has come to define it. As they hover at the delicate precipice of a different kind of survival, they learn that the family fortune has dwindled to just about nothing, and they must face desperate questions about how much their wealth has played a part in both their lives’ successes and failures.
Long Island Compromise spans the entirety of one family’s history, winding through decades and generations, all the way to the outrageous present, and confronting the mainstays of American Jewish life: tradition, the pursuit of success, the terror of history, fear of the future, old wives’ tales, evil eyes, ambition, achievement, boredom, dybbuks, inheritance, pyramid schemes, right-wing capitalists, beta-blockers, psychics, and the mostly unspoken love and shared experience that unite a family forever.
Sunday, July 13, 2025
Life: It Goes On - July 13
Last Week I:
Listened To: Henning Mankell's Faceless Killers. Next up is Robert Edsel's The Monuments Men...I think. At least I'm going to start it on audio, but I'm wondering if it might be one I'd be better off reading digitally.
Watched: The first season of Running Point, a couple of episodes of Only Murders In The Building, and Wicked.
Made: I haven't cooked a single thing all week! The Big Guy cooked a couple of nights and we've eaten out the rest of the week.
Enjoyed: Guys, I picked out the materials for our kitchen weeks ago and since then I've been afraid that I wouldn't like them or they wouldn't look good. Now that everything is in, it makes me so happy to walk into my kitchen!
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This Week I’m:
Planning: It's not that we weren't planning on painting the kitchen walls, but now that the new tile is up, I'm going to have to paint sooner than later. Luckily we already have the paint so we can get started today.
Thinking About: Paint colors for the cabinets. Because we can't stop once we've started!
Feeling: Not as relaxed as I had expected to feel after a four-day weekend. When I scheduled these days off, there was nothing on the calendar and I thought it would be a nice, quiet time. Instead, because BG was off visiting clients the better part of the time people were here, I had to be "on" AND it was non-stop noisy for the big chunks of the past three days. I'm going to need to schedule another long weekend soon.
Looking forward to: Book club this week, where we'll be discussing Remarkably Bright Creatures.
Question of the week: Now that we've past the half way point of the year, what's your favorite book so far in 2025?
Thursday, July 10, 2025
Anne Perry and the Murder of the Century by Peter Graham
A sensational trial followed, with speculations about the nature of the girls’ relationship and possible insanity playing a key role. Among other things, Parker and Hulme were suspected of lesbianism, which was widely considered to be a mental illness at the time. This mesmerizing book offers a brilliant account of the crime and ensuing trial and shares dramatic revelations about the fates of the young women after their release from prison. With penetrating insight, this thorough analysis applies modern psychology to analyze the shocking murder that remains one of the most interesting cases of all time.
- I don't remember where I first heard about this book but the idea that a well-known author had been involved in a murder as a young woman intrigued me. How, I wondered, had she gotten past that to become a respected writer?
- By the time I actually got around to reading the book, I'd forgotten that Anne Perry was actually Juliet Hulme and thought that she was involved in some other way. Except that I always, always look at the photo inserts in a book before I start reading so I quickly figured it out.
- Both Juliet Hulme and Pauline Parker had difficult childhoods that caused them to have attachment issues with their mothers. Neither mother was ideal - Honorah Rieper ran hot and cold and Hilda Hulme struggled to connect with her daughter at all. Juliet was considered quite pretty and very bright - she thought perhaps even more highly about herself because of this than did anyone else. Both girls clearly struggled with mental health issues.
- That being said, so little was known about mental health as recently as the 1950's that both doctors and the judicial system struggled to explain how two girls who showed no remorse and clearly understood that what they did was wrong could also be mentally ill. Also, the idea that these two young ladies might be lesbians was a big story - inherently this seemed to make them worse people but did it mean that they were just worse people or even more mentally ill? It seemed that it must be one or the other.
- If this happened today, it would still be big, international news. We'd still struggle with the idea of matricide and how two young girls could be so remorseless.
- As bad as the penal system was in the 1950's, as terrible as the conditions in the places where these young women were sent were, they were both allowed to continue their educations and actually served very little time, relative to the crime they'd committed. What was even more strange was the fact that they were both treated so differently when they were released. Parker was force to stay in New Zealand on parole, while Hulme (who took on the name Perry because her mother had taken that name on after she became involved with a new man by that name) was allowed to travel to Britain.
- The two women dealt with the aftermath of what they had done very differently. Parker appeared to be very repentant and lived a quiet, religious life, trying to stay out of the spotlight. Perry (whose name evolved to Anne Perry) was able to live without anyone knowing about her past and became quite wealthy and well known with her writing. In many interviews, after it was discovered who she was, she showed very little remorse.
- Director Peter Jackson got his big break when he and his wife produced a film adaptation of the case. Heavenly Creatures starred Kate Winslet and Melanie Lynskey. Now I want to track that movie down.
- Reviews on this one are very mixed. Some think it's terrific. I thought it particularly dragged in the middle and that Graham tried to stuff in everything that he'd learned about the case. At the end of the book, we learned what had happened to all of the people who had played a part in the trial - honestly, I didn't really care. I don't know what that says about me. Did I want it to be more sensational? Not particularly. But I also thought it was a story that should have better held my attention.
Tuesday, July 8, 2025
Mini-Review: Vinegar Girl by Anne Tyler
Dr. Battista has other problems. After years out in the academic wilderness, he is on the verge of a breakthrough. His research could help millions. There's only one problem: his brilliant young lab assistant, Pyotr, is about to be deported. And without Pyotr, all would be lost.
When Dr. Battista cooks up an outrageous plan that will enable Pyotr to stay in the country, he's relying - as usual - on Kate to help him. Kate is furious: this time he's really asking too much. But will she be able to resist the two men's touchingly ludicrous campaign to bring her around?
Sunday, July 6, 2025
Life: It Goes On - July 6
Last Week I:
Listened To: I finished Long Island Compromise and started Henning Mankell's Faceless Killers (definitely not my usual read but I'm actually enjoying it - it's the first in his Wallander series).
Watched: Friday night with Miss H we watched several episodes of Dateline and last night a couple of episodes of Shrinking. We're down to one episode and then we'll have to wait months before the next season is released.
Read: I finally finished Anne Perry and the Murder of the Century and started Elon Hilderbrand's Summerland, expecting something light and fluffy. Nope - starts with the death of Nantucket's bright and shining teen.
Made: Friday was Miss C's birthday so I made her a German chocolate cake, as well as a second chocolate cake (because I don't like German chocolate cake), and homemade ice cream.
Enjoyed: Thursday we had Mini-him, Miss C, a couple of their friend, and a couple of our friends over to watch the neighbors' fireworks show and then enjoyed dessert at our place. Friday we got to spend some time with Big Guy's cousin and some of her family (they live not all that far from Miss H) - it's been far to long since we've seen them. Then we went out to dinner with our adopted K.C. family, which is always fun.
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This Week I’m:
Planning: I have a couple of days off this week, which I'll spend putzing around the house while the crews come in to do their part of the renovations in our kitchen. Counters, sink/faucet and backsplash should be done by this time next weekend.
Thinking About: Paint colors. Once the counters and backsplash are in, then it's time to start painting (ok, realistically, we should have done that first, but we didn't) and I still haven't decided on colors. The cupboards and walls will all need to be painted.
Feeling: Excited and nervous - what if I hate what I picked out once it's installed?!
Looking forward to: Another long weekend - I have been so bad about taking time off and the burn out is really starting to show.
Question of the week: Have you ever painted kitchen cupboards? We are going to do them ourselves, which might be the thing I'm most nervous about.