Showing posts with label mental health. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mental health. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 9, 2026

The One Hundred Years of Lenni and Margot by Marianne Cronin

The One Hundred Years of Lenni and Margot
by Marianne Cronin
Read by Sheila Reed and Rebecca Benson
10 hours, 53 minutes
Published June 2021 by HarperCollins

Publisher's Summary: 
An extraordinary friendship. A lifetime of stories. 

Seventeen—year—old Lenni Pettersson lives on the Terminal Ward at the Glasgow Princess Royal Hospital. Though the teenager has been told she’s dying, she still has plenty of living to do. Joining the hospital’s arts and crafts class, she meets the magnificent Margot, an 83—year—old, purple—pajama—wearing, fruitcake—eating rebel, who transforms Lenni in ways she never imagined.

As their friendship blooms, a world of stories opens for these unlikely companions who, between them, have been alive for one hundred years. Though their days are dwindling, both are determined to leave their mark on the world. With the help of Lenni’s doting palliative care nurse and Father Arthur, the hospital’s patient chaplain, Lenni and Margot devise a plan to create one hundred paintings showcasing the stories of the century they have lived—stories of love and loss, of courage and kindness, of unexpected tenderness and pure joy.

Though the end is near, life isn’t quite done with these unforgettable women just yet.

Delightfully funny and bittersweet, heartbreaking yet ultimately uplifting, The One Hundred Years of Lenni and Margot reminds us of the preciousness of life as it considers the legacy we choose to leave, how we influence the lives of others even after we’re gone, and the wonder of a friendship that transcends time.

My Thoughts: 
  • This one was recommended by a friend to whom it had been recommended. I opted for the audiobook because I was ready for a new book and it was available immediately on audio. I'm glad I did - both Reed and Benson did a terrific job. I really felt like I was getting the story from Lenni and Margot. 
  • I love finding books about friendship, especially friendships that end up growing a new family, that are able to explore the subject from entirely new (to me, at least) perspectives. 
  • Lenni has had a tough life, made so much worse by the fact that she's dying alone with only the hospital staff as company. Until a new employee starts an arts program. Lenni chooses to attend the sessions attended by the elderly and there she meets Margot, who has lived through her own trials and sadness. 
  • Between them, Lenni and Margot have lived 100 years. They decide that they will tell their life stories through art, giving them both a reason to fight to live on, at least until they finish that project. While they work through the project, readers are privy to the stories that each of the works of art portray. 
  • Lenni also befriends Father Arthur, who finds in Lenni a challenge to his own faith, allowing Cronin to explore the idea of faith in the face of death. 
  • Despite the fact that I knew this one had to end sadly, I still wasn't prepared for the ending's emotional hit. 
  • Would I recommend this book? Absolutely. Despite the ending, it is a book filled with hope, love in so many forms, and the message that everyone has a story to tell, if we will only take the time to listen. 

Tuesday, March 3, 2026

More Than Enough by Anna Quindlen

More Than Enough
by Anna Quindlen
256 pages
Published February 2026 by Random House 
My copy courtesy of the publisher, through NetGalley, in exchange for an honest review

Publisher's Summary: 
No one knows you like your book club.

High school English teacher Polly Goodman can talk about everything and anything with the women in her book club, which is why they’ve become her closest friends and, along with her veterinarian husband, the bedrock of her life. Her students, her fraught relationship with her mother, her struggles with IVF—Polly’s book club friends have heard about it all.

But when they give Polly an ancestry test kit as a joke, the results match her with a stranger. It is clear to Polly that this match is a mistake, but still she cannot help but comb through her family history for answers. Then, when it seems that the book club circle of four will become three, Polly learns how friendships can change your life in the most profound ways.

Written with Anna Quindlen’s trademark warmth, humor, and insight into the power of love and hope, More Than Enough explores how we find ourselves again and again through the relationships that define us.

My Thoughts: 
I'm pretty sure I say this every time I read one of Quinlen's books, but it's true that she's one of my go-to authors. I haven't always loved one of her books; but they always given me plenty to think about and depth and there is always so much truth to them. This one falls into the category of not being one of Quindlen's books I loved, but also a book that I would recommend because there is so much to think about (and talk about, making it a good book club choice). 

While there is a lot going on in this one (infertility, mental health, friendship, death grief, dementia, family dynamics, and family secrets), there also isn't much of a plot, It's absolutely centered on its characters.  Some things feel a bit forced and some characters are a bit stereotyped (could Mark be any more perfect?). But most of those characters? I really liked them, even the ones that had sharper edges and the relationships between them. There's a gentleness to this story that I really enjoyed and an easy flow that pulled me along. 

Despite what I perceived as its flaws, this is a book I can easily recommend for those who enjoy character-driven novels and novels about relationships and what makes a family. 


Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Life: It Goes On - June 24

Happy Tuesday! I hadn't realized how long I'd gone without blogging until I just finished up a review that I'd left hanging open and found out I lasted posted on the 8th! I've been feeling down lately, maybe more down than I realized. 

It's also been, for us, fairly busy this month. Since I last wrote, we've had visits from my uncle and aunt and from my sister and her husband. Which, of course, means that I've been keeping my house cleaner this month that I might otherwise have been. Father's Day weekend we were busy all weekend with activities. And I had an employee in office from Texas the week before last at the same time that I had a new employee start, which drained my battery every day. 

And last week I spent an hour every day taking care of Mini-him's and Miss C's cats while they were on yet another mini-vacation. Oh to have so many free miles and the ability to work away from home! Luckily, Big Guy is perfectly able to wipe up a dinner while I'm stopping to do that on my way home from work. 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: Good Material by Dolly Alderton. This week I started listening to Long Island Compromise, which I had been reading in print until the audiobook became available. 


Watched: All of the College World Series games, including the one BG, Mini-him and I went to on Father's Day. 


Read: I'm floundering when it comes to actually reading a book. I'm back to Anne Perry and the Murder of the Century by Peter Graham, but it's slow going for me. 


Made: Spaghetti with meat sauce; roasted tomato and spinach pasta, and egg roll in a bowl. 


Enjoyed: Dinner out with my sister and her husband - I finally found my new favorite restaurant macaroni and cheese. 

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This Week I’m:  


Planning: Nothing on the calendar for the rest of the week so I'm plugging away and decluttering my office. I've joined a new group on Facebook created around the book, The Swedish Art of Death Cleaning. Because maybe if I join enough groups, I be able to keep myself working on clearing things out. 


Thinking About: Politics. I try to avoid them but have to balance that against wanting to be informed and involved. 


Feeling: Better. I finally admitted to my doctor that I've been struggling with depression and I've started on a medication that seems to be starting to help. 


Looking forward to: A relaxing weekend. Which I hope is cool enough to spend time outside again. Last weekend was ridiculously hot. 


Question of the week: How have you been beating the heat? 

Tuesday, February 25, 2025

The Wedding People by Alison Espach

The Wedding People
by Alison Espach
384 pages
Published July 2024 by Holt, Henry and Company, Inc. 

Publisher's Summary: 
It’s a beautiful day in Newport, Rhode Island, when Phoebe Stone arrives at the grand Cornwall Inn wearing a green dress and gold heels, not a bag in sight, alone. She’s immediately mistaken by everyone in the lobby for one of the wedding people, but she’s actually the only guest at the Cornwall who isn’t here for the big event. Phoebe is here because she’s dreamed of coming for years—she hoped to shuck oysters and take sunset sails with her husband, only now she’s here without him, at rock bottom, and determined to have one last decadent splurge on herself. Meanwhile, the bride has accounted for every detail and every possible disaster the weekend might yield except for, well, Phoebe and Phoebe's plan—which makes it that much more surprising when the two women can’t stop confiding in each other.

In turns absurdly funny and devastatingly tender, Alison Espach’s The Wedding People is ultimately an incredibly nuanced and resonant look at the winding paths we can take to places we never imagined—and the chance encounters it sometimes takes to reroute us.

My Thoughts: 
When the publisher says that Phoebe is at rock bottom, what they mean to say is that Phoebe has abruptly left her home and her job to travel to the Cornwall Inn to commit suicide. When she arrives, she discovers that the rest of the hotel has been taken over by a wedding party...and a bride who discovers Phoebe's plan and insists that Phoebe cannot do what she's come to do. Not because Lila is empathetic and longs to save a life. Nope, it's because Lila absolutely cannot abide the idea of having her wedding week ruined by such a thing. 

That's a hell of a way to start a book and I couldn't imagine where things were going to go from there. And I would really, really love to tell you what happens next. I raced through the book as Espach introduced us to the various wedding people, including bride Lila and groom Gary and as she looked back at what had brought Phoebe to this low point in her life. As I met most of the wedding people, my first instinct was that these characters were stereotypes, but none of them ended up that way; each of them got enough background and room in the book to show us who they really are. 

The Wedding People runs the gamut of emotions - from the tough beginning to humor, from sadness to frustration. It's more complex than it appears, but moves along a quick enough pace to keep things light. The ending could have been cliche. Did Espach lay out where things were going? Yes, but when it came time to conclude the book, it happened in a very realistic and more believable way. For me, this one was well worth the hype.