My Friends by Fredrik Backman

My Friends by Fredrik Backman

448 pages

Published May 2025 by Atria Books

Publisher's Summary: 

Most people don’t even notice them—three tiny figures sitting at the end of a long pier in the corner of one of the most famous paintings in the world. Most people think it’s just a depiction of the sea. But Louisa, an aspiring artist herself, knows otherwise, and she is determined to find out the story of these three enigmatic figures.

Twenty-five years earlier, in a distant seaside town, a group of teenagers find refuge from their bruising home lives by spending long summer days on an abandoned pier, telling silly jokes, sharing secrets, and committing small acts of rebellion. These lost souls find in each other a reason to get up each morning, a reason to dream, a reason to love.

Out of that summer emerges a transcendent work of art, a painting that will unexpectedly be placed into eighteen-year-old Louisa’s care. She embarks on a surprise-filled cross-country journey to learn how the painting came to be and to decide what to do with it. The closer she gets to the painting’s birthplace, the more nervous she becomes about what she’ll find. Louisa is proof that happy endings don’t always take the form we expect in this stunning testament to the transformative, timeless power of friendship and art.

My Thoughts: 

I've been going back and forth on this one. On the one hand, it is very much what readers expect from Backman. On the other hand, it's a very different story from his usual stories. I've seen some readers say that it's their favorite of his books. For me, it's not, which is not to say it's not a very good book that will give Backman fans much of what they want from his books. 

Like Backman's other books, My Friends deals with loss, grief, friendship, and the ways life can be hard and complicated at times. While this book has plenty of Backman's usual humor, it felt to me that it was more weighed down by life's difficulties than his other books. 

The book is told from two time periods and two points of view through most of the book. In present time, we are following Louisa who has led a really tough life, including the recent death of her only friend. Her only solace is a postcard of a famous painting, a painting she finally gets to see in person. In the past, we follow four friends, who live equally difficult lives, as they live their final summer together, the summer that resulted in that famous painting. Their only real joy is the time they spend together, time that ends each evening with the word "Tomorrow," a promise to each other. 

Louisa's life becomes intertwined with one of the friends and as the two of them travel across the country, the friend tells Louisa the story of that summer. Finally we come to the town the friends grew up in and Louisa is given the chance to restart her life, with new friends and opportunities she never would have had without that postcard. 

Memorial Days by Geraldine Brooks

Memorial Days by Geraldine Brooks

224 pages

Published February 2025 by Penguin Publishing Group

Publisher's Summary: 

Many cultural and religious traditions expect those who are grieving to step away from the world. In contemporary life, we are more often met with red tape and to-do lists. This is exactly what happened to Geraldine Brooks when her partner of more than three decades, Tony Horwitz – just sixty years old and, to her knowledge, vigorous and healthy – collapsed and died on a Washington, D. C. sidewalk.

After spending their early years together in conflict zones as foreign correspondents, Geraldine and Tony settled down to raise two boys on Martha’s Vineyard. The life they built was one of meaningful work, good humor, and tenderness, as they spent their days writing and their evenings cooking family dinners or watching the sun set with friends at the beach. But all of this ended abruptly when, on Memorial Day 2019, Geraldine received the phone call we all dread. The demands were immediate and many. Without space to grieve, the sudden loss became a yawning gulf.

Three years later, she booked a flight to a remote island off the coast of Australia with the intention of finally giving herself the time to mourn. In a shack on a pristine, rugged coast she often went days without seeing another person. There, she pondered the various ways in which cultures grieve and what rituals of her own might help to rebuild a life around the void of Tony’s death.

A spare and profoundly moving memoir that joins the classics of the genre, Memorial Days is a portrait of a larger-than-life man and a timeless love between souls that exquisitely captures the joy, agony, and mystery of life.

My Thoughts: 

""Is this the home of Tony Horowitz?"

   Yes. 

   "Who am I speaking to?"

   This is his wife. 

   That is exact. The rest is a blur.

   "Collapsed in the street...tried to resuscitate at the scene...brought to the hospital...couldn't revive him..."

   And, so, now he's in the OR. And, so, now we've admitted him for a procedure. And, so, now we're 

   keeping him for observation.

   So many things that logically should have followed.

   But she said none of these things. Instead, the illogical thing. 

   He's dead. 

   No."

How's that for packing a punch to open a book? 

I'd forgotten that this was a memoir when I started it. As I read these words, I was thinking to myself, "Wow, this is the way to make the death of a loved one sound real." Well, of course it was. Even so, I'm so impressed by Brooks' ability to make that moment, six years ago, still feel so very real and raw. 

Brooks writes about her own grief, about helping her sons and in-laws deal with their grief, about trying to understand how a person as healthy as Tony appeared to be could die so suddenly, about their lives together. She didn't make a saint of him. All of it brought Tony to life and made it even easier to understand why his loss was so difficult to bear. 

This book really resonated with me, for the storytelling, for the writing, and because I could so relate to it. No, I have not lost my husband. But I have faced the diagnosis of my husband's cancer and lived through figuring out how to tell my children, how to comfort them while also facing my own possible future, of having to manage the shock and sadness of others. I have dealt with the very sudden loss of my mother and all of the strategic decisions that had to be made for months afterward that put off of my own grief to an extent. I could understand the need to step away from it all to have time to allow myself to feel everything. 

Brooks did all of that while trying to finish the novel she was working on at the time of Tony's death, Horse. Because life moves forward, no matter how much we need it to stop for a little while. 

Life: It Goes On - September 28

Happy Sunday from sunny Omaha! We're looking at a beautiful fall day here, which we'll cap off with an outside concert later tonight. Not that I'm not looking forward to this concert, but it's one of those decisions I made after a couple glasses of wine that I'm now second guessing. I mean, I never do something on a school night that gets me home as late as this will! I am such a slave to my sleep schedule these days that late nights find me really dragging the next day. 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: Rachel Hawkins' The Woman Upstairs. Up next is Sarah Damoff's The Bright Years.

Watched: Volleyball, football, The Voice and Only Murders In The Building.

Read: Taylor Reid Jenkins' Atmosphere.

Made: A couple of batches of spaghetti sauce with roasted cherry tomatoes from our garden. We are having a bumper crop of those things so we're having to get creative finding ways to use them. There are only so many frozen tomatoes that we'll need over the winter. 

Enjoyed: Happy hour with friends on Friday and family time at the Big Guy's sister's house yesterday, catching up with our niece, who was up from Arizona. 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: I think we have a quiet week this coming week which should give me plenty of time to work on some projects. I need to get a dresser repainted for Miss H to use temporarily, I have a table I want to get sanded and oiled, and that garage needs to get tackled before it's too cold to work out there. 

Thinking About: I'm seeing all of the home accounts I follow gearing up for Halloween and I'm wondering why that's a holiday that I have less and less interest in decorating for as I get older. I'm not even sure I'll get out my witch collection this year. 

Feeling: I have a couple of Fridays off this month, but we'll be busy on both of them. What I really need is a few days off just to do the things that I want to do - read, thrift, knock off a decluttering project. 

Looking forward to: Seeing Jon Batiste with Andra Day tonight. 

Question of the week: As much as I like live music, I tend to not go to concerts these days for a number of reasons. Are you a fan of live music? What's the best concert you've ever seen? 

Life: It Goes On - September 24

Happy Wednesday (just barely still Wednesday)! We were out of town until Monday evening and by the time we unpacked, did laundry and fed ourselves, I didn't have the energy to write a post. Last night was time for a visit to see my dad since it had been almost a week and this evening it's been about getting things done around the house that usually get done on the weekends. Tomorrow may be an evening to just relax and get the reading done that I thought I'd get done in the car over the weekend, but didn't. 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: M.C. Beaton's Death of A Smuggler, some of Javier Zamora's Solito (it's a tough listen and I can only do a little at a time), and yesterday I started Rachel Hawkins' The Wife Upstairs, which I didn't know was a reworking of Jane Eyre.

Watched: Saturday we watched the Nebraska football game at my niece's home in Wisconsin (her husband was a real sport and cheered along with us). Their three-year-old son took a shine to The Big Guy and was his shadow, watching the game sitting right by his side, watching BG to make sure he was reacting to every play the right way, and echoing everything BG said. Given the outcome of the game, I'd definitely say watching those two guys was the better option of things to watch. 

Read: I got very little reading done over the weekend, despite the long drive. I spent a good chunk of the time driving and had to navigate much more than I usually do, thanks to heavy traffic, rain, and thick fog. Tonight I'll finish Charlotte McConaghy's Wild, Dark Shore. Next up will be Taylor Reid Jenkins' Atmosphere. 

Made: A caramel apple dip that didn't travel well, but tasted delicious. I'll make it again but when the person I got the recipe from said it needed every bit of the sugar she was putting in, she was lying. I'll cut the recipe in half, cut the sugar by about a third, and put the toppings on just before serving. 

It was a grey but fun day! 

Enjoyed: Time with family, including finally getting to meet my 17-month-old great-niece and a drive along the north shore of Lake Superior, including revisiting the site of one of my mom's favorite ever vacation experiences. 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: On, hopefully, getting BG to work on the garage this weekend while there's no football game to distract him and it's still warm enough to be out there. 

Thinking About: Miss H is moving soon and we'll be headed to KC a couple of weekends to help with that. Since she'll be living with a friend for a few months, instead of own her own, we're having to figure out what to do with the rest of her furniture. 

Feeling: I forgot my blood pressure meds over the weekend, which seemed fine over the weekend; but now I'm suffering the consequences so I'm off to bed shortly. 

Looking forward to: Going to see Jon Batiste with friends on Sunday evening. 

Question of the week: I was so happy on the beaches this weekend, even if it was too cold to swim. I love just listening to the waves. Are you someone who prefers time on the water or do you, like BG, prefer the mountains? 

The Instrumentalist by Harriet Constable

The Instrumentalist by Harriet Constable

Read by Emilia Clarke

10 hours, 55 minutes

Published August 2024 by Simon and Schuster

Publisher's Summary: 

Anna Maria della Pietà was destined to drown in one of Venice's canals. Instead, she became the greatest violinist of the 18th century.

Anna Maria has only known life inside the Pietà, an orphanage for children born of prostitutes. But the girls of the Pietà are lucky in a sense: most babies born of their station were drowned in the city's canals. And despite the strict rules, the girls are given singing and music lessons from an early age. The most promising musicians have the chance to escape the fate of the rest: forced marriage to anyone who will have them.

Anna Maria is determined to be the best violinist there is-and whatever Anna Maria sets out to do, she achieves. After all, the stakes for Anna could not be higher. But it is 1704 and she is a girl. The pursuit of her ambition will test everything she holds dear, especially when it becomes clear that her instructor, Antonio Vivaldi, will teach Anna everything he knows-but not without taking something in return.

From the opulent palaces of Venice to its mud-licked canals, The Instrumentalist is a “searing portrait of ambition and betrayal” (Elizabeth MacNeal, author of The Doll Factory). It is the story of one woman's irrepressible ambition and rise to the top. It is also the story of the orphans of Venice who overcame destitution and abuse to make music, and whose contributions to some of the most important works of classical music, including “The Four Seasons,” have been overlooked for too long.

My Thoughts: 

I first heard about this book last month when some friends and I attended the Omaha Public Library's annual Book Bash. Historical fiction that focuses on classical music, particularly Vivaldi? Count me in! I requested the audiobook while I was still at the event. 

Let's get the one thing that kept me from liking this book as much as I wanted to out of the way. It was, as is so often the case, a matter of editing. I felt like there was quite a bit of repetition in the book and some things that could easily have been left out with no loss to the story. Oh, and one other thing: since this was an audiobook, I really wish there would have been more actual music involved. 

And now the good. It's not surprising to so often pick up books that teach us about something in history we know nothing about; even the most well educated historians don't know everything. But I'm always excited to read a book showcasing women making the most of their power, even in times and places where they had so little of it. 

Anna Maria della Pietà was a real person, who actually did grow up in the Pieta, study under Vivaldi and have some of his compositions written especially for her, and become a maestra. The Pieta was a real place where orphans were taken in and raised to be useful to society. The girls with musical talent were encouraged and the best of them placed in the figlie di coro. The figlie was widely admired and the members received extravagant gifts as well as brining in funds for the orphanage. 

 Constable takes that history and gives Anna Maria a beginning and a full life, filled with friends, sadness, betrayal, immense talent and even greater ambition. My beloved Vivaldi doesn't come off looking too good, but I was ok with that, given that it meant that Anna Maria could rise up and bring along with other girls with her. As in real life, Anna Maria first shows her talent at the age of eight, so what we see is a young girl desperate to use that talent to make something of herself while being too young to see how she is hurting herself (and others) even as she ascends in the figlie. The ending worked perfectly for me, with happiness for Anna Maria while still recognizing the limitations on her life and the other women. 

Ripper by Isabel Allende

Ripper by Isabel Allende

Read by Edoardo Ballerina

14 hours, 28 minutes

Published January 2014 by HarperCollins

Publisher's Summary: 

The Jackson women, Indiana and Amanda, have always had each other. Yet, while their bond is strong, mother and daughter are as different as night and day. Indiana, a beautiful holistic healer, is a free-spirited bohemian. Long divorced from Amanda's father, she's reluctant to settle down with either of the men who want her-Alan, the wealthy scion of one of San Francisco's elite families, and Ryan, an enigmatic, scarred former Navy SEAL.

While her mom looks for the good in people, Amanda is fascinated by the dark side of human nature, like her father, the SFPD's Deputy Chief of Homicide. Brilliant and introverted, the MIT-bound high school senior is a natural-born sleuth addicted to crime novels and Ripper, the online mystery game she plays with her beloved grandfather and friends around the world.

When a string of strange murders occurs across the city, Amanda plunges into her own investigation, discovering, before the police do, that the deaths may be connected. But the case becomes all too personal when Indiana suddenly vanishes. Could her mother's disappearance be linked to the serial killer? Now, with her mother's life on the line, the young detective must solve the most complex mystery she's ever faced before it's too late.

My Thoughts: 

I used to devour Isabel Allende books, starting with The House of the Spirits, more than forty years ago. Her story telling was so good that I accepted the magical realism of it. It's been years now since I read any of Allende's works (not sure why) so when I was looking for something to listen to recently and this came up, I decided it was time to get back to her. 

I'm sorry to say that this one was a disappointment. Despite the publisher's pitch that this is a fast-paced book, it dragged for me, focusing so much on introducing so many people in Indiana's life and less on Amanda's and her friends' investigation into the recent murders in San Francisco. Allende asks readers to believe that a deputy chief of homocide would be willing to release details of murder investigations to his former father-in-law and his daughter, which I never bought into. We were at least two thirds of the way through the book before things finally really started to pick up and I became truly interested in finding out how this would play out. You knew the murderer was going to be someone we'd been introduced to, but I'll give Allende due credit for giving that reveal a real twist I was not expecting. In the end, all of those people finally came together but I still felt like too much time had been spent on fleshing them out. 

Edoardo Ballerini, as always, does a fabulous job with this one and was a real saving grace to keep me listening. I could recommend a lot of Allende's books to you; unfortunately, this isn't one of them. 

Life: It Goes On - September 14

Happy Sunday! Wow, how are we already half way through September?! Also, how did I not manage (again!) to get a single book review posted. I am happy to say that I've been reading, although I must say that most of what I've been reading would be now higher on a grading scare than a C. Still, that hasn't killed by desire to read and I've been taking advantage of some nights on my own to turn off the tv and just read.  

Last Week I: 

Listened To: I finished The Instrumentalist and started Gabrielle Stanley Blair's Ejaculate Responsibly and Javier Zamora's Solito which is the Omaha Reads selection for 2025 and my book club's selection for this month. 

Watched: Lots of sports and not much else. 

Read: I finished Ruth Ware's latest, The Woman In Suite 11 and started Charlotte McConaghy's Wild Dark Shore. I continue to read Paul Harding's Enon when I'm not carrying a physical book with me. Lately, though, I find I'm more likely to prefer having a real book in my hands. 

Made: Enchiladas with a mole sauce, our usual Monday pasta with fresh tomato and basil, and a BLT salad. 

Enjoyed: Two things this week: 1) Mini-him and I went to see the movie version of Hamilton Wednesday. I am truly blessed to have children that have similar interests and enjoying doing things together. Last night, as part of Omaha Restaurant Week, we went with friends to Dolomiti for their special prix fixe dinner. Started rough, thanks to a very loud party table, but once they left, we enjoyed delicious food and excellent company. The owner even gave us starts of the sourdough they use to make their pizza crust! 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: A little getaway. 

Thinking About: The events of this past week and hoping that the initial reactions from it calm down before we can't come back from the aftermath. 

Feeling: I'm feeling a little burnt out from work lately. At some point in this calendar year, I'm supposed to be taking a full week off and I'm thinking I need to schedule that sooner, rather than later. 

Looking forward to: Book club on Tuesday and meeting my great-niece for the first time this coming weekend (and seeing her brother, parents and grandparents, too!). 

Question of the week: Do you like to try new things at restaurants or do you prefer to stick with the tried and true, knowing you'll enjoy what you get?

Life: It Goes On - September 7

Happy Sunday! Going to make this short because I'm only finally getting it written just before bedtime. I can't say I've been too busy to do it; just wanted to get a pic of my new auction "win" in its new home and I had to get dressed before I could go outside to do that. If you've been reading this for very long, you know how much I like to spend weekend days in my pajamas and since I couldn't do that yesterday, I was determined to do it today. 

We've had a lovely, cool and dry weekend here so doors and windows have been thrown open and we spent a lot of time outdoors. Yesterday we went to Lincoln to pick up my auction item and to visit family. Because they live downtown, we also got to walk around downtown Lincoln, soaking up the excitement of the first home game of the season, even if it was six hours before it started.  Had to stop on our way home and pick up some Baker's chocolates at the factory store. Did we need two pounds of chocolates? No. Did we actually consider buying a third flavor? Yes. But like the grownups we are, we used restraint. 

Are you old enough to remember
when milk was delivered to your 
house and put in these boxes? I 
was so nostalgic about this when 
I say it on the auction. It even 
has the little clip where the wife
would put her order 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: Still listening to Harriet Constable's The Instrumentalist. I'm afraid it's a little repetitive but otherwise, it's an interesting story based on a real person. 

Watched: Lots of football (including our Husker's first shutout in 16 years), three volleyball matches, and some episodes of Only Murders In The Building. 

Read: Still reading Rachel Hawkin's The Woman in Suite 11. 

Made: We used the leftovers from the taco bar in a lot of ways, including old-school taco salad with Catalina dressing. Yesterday for game watching I made a cream cheese mixture with dried beef and chopped dill pickles that we spread on mini-bagels. Tonight I put together a ham, broccoli, and potato casserole we'll toss in the oven for dinner tomorrow. Later this week we'll have onion sandwich, based on a recommendation from BG's brother and SIL. I'd be as skeptical as you are right now if it had come so highly recommended by two people who know good food. 

Enjoyed: Dinner with friends Friday - I was jonesing for poutine and they all humored me. 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: My office has once again become a dumping ground so I need to get up there and work on that. Then I'm hoping to get out to the garage now that's it's cool enough to work out there. 

Thinking About: A couple of long weekends we have coming up. I can't wait! 

Feeling: Tired. I never get sick when I get my Covid vaccine, but it always makes me really tired for a day or two. Got it yesterday so I'm hoping tomorrow is better. 

Looking forward to: Miss H is coming up for a cleaning job this week so we'll have her with us one night. The next night Mini-him and I are going to see Hamilton in the theater. Saturday we're going out to eat with friends to a new-to-most-of-us place as part of Omaha Restaurant Week. 

Question of the week: Do you go to auctions, estate sales, or garage sales? Have you ever done an online auction or bought something off of Facebook Marketplace? I'm a little addicted these days, even if I don't buy much (because it's kind of hard to justify it while at the same time trying to get rid of stuff). 

Carnegie's Maid by Marie Benedict

Carnegie's Maid by Marie Benedict

Read by Alana Kerr Collins

9 hours, 1 minute

Published October 2018 by Source Landmark

Publisher's Summary: 

From the author of The Other Einstein, the mesmerizing tale of what kind of woman could have inspired an American dynasty.

Clara Kelley is not who they think she is. She's not the experienced Irish maid who was hired to work in one of Pittsburgh's grandest households. She's a poor farmer's daughter with nowhere to go and nothing in her pockets. But the other woman with the same name has vanished, and pretending to be her just might get Clara some money to send back home.

If she can keep up the ruse, that is. Serving as a lady's maid in the household of Andrew Carnegie requires skills he doesn't have, answering to an icy mistress who rules her sons and her domain with an iron fist. What Clara does have is a resolve as strong as the steel Pittsburgh is becoming famous for, coupled with an uncanny understanding of business, and Andrew begins to rely on her. But Clara can't let her guard down, not even when Andrew becomes something more than an employer. Revealing her past might ruin her future -- and her family's.

With captivating insight and heart, Carnegie's Maid tells the story of one brilliant woman who may have spurred Andrew Carnegie's transformation from ruthless industrialist into the world's first true philanthropist.

My Thoughts: 

A couple of months ago I was texting with a friend I've known and loved since I was 19 years old. She happened to mention that she was reading the last book by Marie Benedict that her local library had available and that she loved Benedict's books. Two things: 1) after more than 40 years of knowing this woman, I had no idea she was a reader (how in the world has that NEVER come up?!); and 2) if she loves this author so much, I need to read something by her, preferably an audiobook since I was just finishing one up. So I grabbed up this one, eager to find out if I would feel the same way about Benedict and to see what the book could teach me about a man whose generosity funded hundreds of libraries across the country. 

As do most historical fictions books I read, this way had me heading to the internet to find out how much truth there was to this story. In point of fact, not much other than the fact that Andrew Carnegie was, himself, an immigrant that came to this country destitute only to become one of the richest men in the world. He was known to be ruthless in business, but more generous in his personal life; still, historians have long wondered what caused him to become such a philanthropist in later life. Benedict has taken her own family's history as immigrants and woven it into Carnegie's life to try to explain that change. It's an interesting idea. 

There's a lot to be said for the socioeconomic portrait Benedict paints of this time in U.S. history and the life of the poor in Pittsburgh at that time, tying in some Irish history as well and I enjoyed those parts of the book. Overall, though, I felt like Benedict was trying to pull too much into her story and things got a little dramatic at times. The fact that our Clara Kelley needed to have her backstory to give us that history that Benedict wanted to give, but would never have been able to work in the capacity in the Carnegie household that she held had she merely applied for the job made for much more drama. Benedict also pulls in a story about the former slave head cook's missing family is another example of pulling in more drama than was necessary to tell the story. But the drama ended as soon as Clara had to leave the Carnegie household and the ending of the book fell flat for me. 

Would it make my top ten list at the end of the year? No. But it was well read and offered enough to be a solid read. It could make a good book club choice, as well. 

The Partly Cloudy Patriot by Sarah Vowell

The Partly Cloudy Patriot by Sarah Vowell

224 pages

Published October 2003 by Simon and Schuster

Publisher's Summary: 

In this insightful and funny collection of personal stories Vowell travels through the American past and in doing so ponders a number of curious questions: Why is she happiest when visiting the sites of bloody struggles like Salem or Gettysburg? Why do people always inappropriately compare themselves to Rosa Parks? Why is a bad life in sunny California so much worse than a bad life anywhere else? What is it about the Zen of foul shots? And, in the title piece, why must doubt and internal arguments haunt the sleepless nights of the true patriot?

Her essays confront a wide range of subjects, themes, icons, and historical moments: Ike, Teddy Roosevelt, and Bill Clinton; Canadian Mounties and German filmmakers; Tom Cruise and Buffy the Vampire Slayer; twins and nerds; the Gettysburg Address, the State of the Union, and George W. Bush's inauguration. 

The result is a teeming and engrossing book, capturing Vowell's memorable wit and her keen social commentary.

My Thoughts: 

Number 1 - let's give me a pat on the back for finally reading a book off of my own bookshelves. 

Number 2 - this is the fourth book by Vowell that I've read and reviewed so I think it goes without saying that I'm a fan, but I'll say it anyway. Because this book did not disappoint. 

Vowell is both a political and historical nerd who doesn't even own rose-colored glasses when it comes to looking at the ways of the United States. Vowell has this about the days immediately following 9/11: 

"...when the newspaper I subscribe to published a full-page, full-color flag to clip out and hang in the window, how come I couldn’t? It took me a while to figure why I guiltily slid the flag into the recycling bin instead of taping it up. The meaning had changed; or let’s say it changed back. In the first day or two the flags were plastered everywhere, seeing them was heartening because they indicated that we were all in this sorrow together. The flags were purely emotional. Once we went to war, once the president announced that we were going to retaliate against the `evildoers,’ then the flag again represented what it usually represents, the government. I think that’s when the flags started making me nervous. The true American patriot is by definition skeptical of the government."

She seems to want to be patriotic but it's just so darn hard to do if you're an educated person who really knows and understands the history of this country. The thing about Vowell is that she brings us all of her truth with a terrific sense of humor and irony which I really enjoy. 

This one started off solid for me with "What He Said," which sees Vowell attending the 137th anniversary of the Gettysburg Address in Gettysburg, Pennsylvania. As an American history teacher's kid, who has visited Gettysburg (among countless (no, really, countless) others, I was caught up with mentions of Joshua Chamberlain, George Pickett, and Little Round Top. Vowell asks us to remember that the Lincoln we idolize was also a politician who was running for re-election when he gave that address. 

Another essay I enjoyed was "Ike Was A Handsome Man," where Vowell is "writing" to Bill Clinton about how his presidential library should be curated. She recommends following the lead of the JFK library, using Clinton's words and voice, rather than narrators as well as the Eisenhower library which emphasizes the highlights of what was accomplished. But she also recommends following the lead of the Lyndon Johnson library, which includes the lowlights as well as the highlights. 

 Vowell has this to say about being a nerd, the thing that has made her so successful: 

"Being a nerd, which is to say going too far, and caring too much about a subject, is the best way to make friends I know. For me, the spark that turns an acquaintance into a friends has usually been kindled by some shared enthusiasm like detective novels or Ulysses S. Grant." 

Me too, Sarah, me, too.