In his rage and despair, Monk dashes off a novel meant to be an indictment of Juanita Mae Jenkins's bestseller. He doesn't intend for My Pafology to be published, let alone taken seriously, but it is-under the pseudonym Stagg R. Leigh-and soon it becomes the Next Big Thing. How Monk deals with the personal and professional fallout galvanizes this audacious, hysterical, and quietly devastating novel.
Thursday, February 27, 2025
Erasure by Percival Everett
In his rage and despair, Monk dashes off a novel meant to be an indictment of Juanita Mae Jenkins's bestseller. He doesn't intend for My Pafology to be published, let alone taken seriously, but it is-under the pseudonym Stagg R. Leigh-and soon it becomes the Next Big Thing. How Monk deals with the personal and professional fallout galvanizes this audacious, hysterical, and quietly devastating novel.
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
The Wedding People by Alison Espach
In turns absurdly funny and devastatingly tender, Alison Espach’s The Wedding People is ultimately an incredibly nuanced and resonant look at the winding paths we can take to places we never imagined—and the chance encounters it sometimes takes to reroute us.
Sunday, February 23, 2025
Life: It Goes On - February 23
Then Friday my dad was sent to the emergency room where he spent about five hours. Sent home only to end up back in the ER when the staff where he lives couldn't waken him. Concerns then led them to transfer him to another hospital where he remains today. Needless to say, we've spent a lot of our past couple of days at hospitals and I'm about to head back to the hospital shortly. The good news is that he's doing much better and may get to go home as soon as this afternoon.
Last Week I:Listened To: I finished The Hunter by Tana French and started The Age of Desire by Jennie Fields. Unfortunately for The Age of Desire, it's following up on what will probably be one of my favorite audiobooks of 2025 so I'm not sure I'm giving it a fair shake so far.
Watched: The Voice, some basketball, but otherwise a lot of nonsense. Well, at least nonsense in my opinion but that has pushed me to read more than watch a lot of television, which is a good thing.
Read: The Wizard of Oz for book club and then I started Liz Moore's The God of the Woods and Allegra Goodman's Isola. Both The God of the Woods and Isola have been getting big buzz, the first being a book Barack Obama is lauding and the second being a book that Reese Witherspoon has chosen for her book club to read. So far I'm enjoying both and hope to finish both by the end of the week.
Made: Homemade mac and cheese, pizza, pork chops with Thai rice. I'm pretty excited to have received my first order from Rancho Gorda late last week and I'm looking forward to making beans this week. Can't decide which of these to start with. Go safe with pinto or try something we've never had before. Have you ever had Christmas lima beans or cranberry beans?
Enjoyed: In a week where we did very little, I've had to find my enjoyment in the small things. Curling up in "my" chair with a good book, comfort food, burrowing into a toasty warm bed. Miss H was also in town for a convention so we saw a little of her as she came and went, although she kept very late hours so we didn't see a lot of her.
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This Week I’m:
Planning: Having lost a chunk of the weekend, a part of this week will be playing catch up, including hanging the new towel rack in our bathroom that was supposed to get done yesterday so that I can finally put that room back together.
Thinking About: Dealing with elderly parents is not for the faint of heart and I certainly didn't understand that until I was in it. It's tough to get the call that we got on Friday, thinking that this might be it, even when you understand that your parent is ready.
Feeling: My mood is so much better today now that we're getting both sunshine and warmth. If I were able to stay home today, I think I'd be motivated to get a lot done.
Looking forward to: Book club was postponed due to the cold last week, so I'm looking forward to that this week.
Question of the week: Who else is already planning their gardens? Have you started seeds? And what about all of the buzz to get rid of Daylight Savings Time - are you for or against that idea? You all know how much I love my long sunny evenings so you know where I stand on that issue!
Thursday, February 20, 2025
The Wizard of Oz by L. Frank Baum
Tuesday, February 18, 2025
Cozy Minimalist Home: More Style, Less Stuff by Myquillen Smith
You'll have the tools to create a home you're proud of in a way that honors your unique priorities, budget, and taste. And best of all, you can completely transform your home starting with furniture and décor that you already have!
In Cozy Minimalist Home, Smith helps you:
- Recognize your role as the curator of your home who makes smart, style-impacting design choices
- Know what to focus on and what not to worry about
- Discover the real secret to finding your unique style
- Find a sofa you won't hate tomorrow
- Deconstruct each room and re-create it step by step
- Create a pretty home with more style and less stuff
- Make your home look the way you've always hoped so you can use it the way you've always dreamed
- Fall in love with the space you've created
Discover how creating a cozy minimalist home goes beyond pretty and sets the stage for the true connection, relationship, and rest that you deserve.
Sunday, February 16, 2025
Life: It Goes On - February 16
It's truly been winter here this week and we have at least another week of it to "look forward to." We got snow on Wednesday, sleet on Friday, more snow on Saturday AND today it's stupid cold. As you know, I'm not a fan; but maybe just wanting to hide inside and curl up actually be put me in the mood to read. It's so cold that, because the windows I'm usually looking out of when I type this are on the north side of the house, I haven't even opened the blinds today.
Last Week I:Listened To: I finished Erasure by Percival Everett and started The Hunter by Tana French.
Watched: The Voice, the Super Bowl (spectacularly un-super), a couple of episodes of Only Murders In The Building, and Emilia Perez on Netflix. It's a movie that refuses to be put in any one genre, has some terrific acting, and tackles some big themes.
Read: I finished Alison Espach's The Wedding People and started L. Frank Baum's beloved The Wizard of Oz, which is my book club's classic book for this year.
Made: Hamburger soup, steaks and baked potatoes for Valentine's Day, and right now I'm cooking some rice pudding and I'm about to start a loaf of Outback bread. I planned to make some sourdough bread but cannot get my starter to reactivate. Too cold in my house, I think.
Enjoyed: My nephew and his wife were in Nebraska this weekend, visiting all of their grandparents, and we got to join them for lunch and drinks yesterday, along with Mini-me and Miss C.
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This Week I’m:
Planning: There's not a lot on the calendar this week, although Miss H will be staying with us this weekend while she's in town for a convention. I'm behind on my Go Simplified calendar for February so I'll probably try to catch up with that. The Big Guy will be so cranky as he watches me get rid of more and more!
Thinking About: I've been trying to avoid the news while also staying informed, which means that I'm still constantly thinking about politics and what's happening in our country.
Feeling: Unmotivated. After I quieted our bathroom almost two weeks ago, I decided I wanted to paint before I put everything back. But I have yet to get to that, which means there's a big painting I brought up for that room that's living in the bathtub, a basket of towels in our closet, and a towel rack leaning against the wall. Must. Paint. Today.
Looking forward to: Book club on Tuesday, even if it does mean going out in the cold again.
Question of the week: What are your favorite soups to make? I'm all about having a pot of soup simmering on the stove all day on these cold days!
Sunday, February 9, 2025
Life: It Goes On - February 9
I've gotten bored watching the Super Bowl, which is something you'll rarely hear me say, even when I don't care who wins the game. You know how much I love football and I usually watch to the bitter end, savoring every last minute of the last game of the season. Did you watch and did you care who won?
Last Week I:
Listened To: Myquillen Smith's Cozy Minimalist Home and Percival Everett's Erasure. I'm afraid that one's going to expire before I get it finished, though. Next up is Tana French's The Hunter.
Watched: Some college basketball, some professional women's volleyball, and The Voice.
Read: Thrity Umrigar's The Museum of Failure. Last night I started The Wedding People, by Alison Espach.
Made: Creamy shrimp pasta with roasted tomatoes and spinach; the viral ditalini pasta recipe; and chipped beef on toast (one of the comfort foods we both grew up with).
Planning: Last week's Cozy Minimalist community's room hushing was a bathroom. I did our primary bathroom (well, as much as I could without moving any of BG's things!); as has happened every time, this has resulted in me wanting to make some changes. This time I need to paint before I can make most of the changes I want to make. So that's up for this week first.
Thinking About: How blessed I am.
Feeling: So tired.
Looking forward to: We do not go out to celebrate Valentine's Day. Instead we have a really good candlelit dinner at home and I pull out the china and the crystal. Haven't decided on the menu yet.
Question of the week: The halftime show of the Super Bowl made me realize that while I am familiar with who Kendrick Lamar is, I don't know any of his music. That being the case, I have no opinion about the show. But, predictably, a lot of people who don't know his music did which brings to mind the old adage "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." There's no way to please everyone. If you got to make the decision about who should perform the halftime show, who would you choose?
Thursday, February 6, 2025
Beautyland by Marie-Helene Bertino
For years, as she moves through the world and makes a life for herself among humans, she dispatches transmissions on the terrors and surprising joys of their existence. Then, at a precarious moment, a beloved friend urges Adina to share her messages with the world. Is there a chance she is not alone?
Marie-Helene Bertino’s Beautyland is a novel of startling originality about the fragility and resilience of life on our Earth and in our universe. It is a remarkable evocation of the feeling of being in exile at home, and it introduces a gentle, unforgettable alien for our times.
"I require speech lessons and corrective lenses and most likely teeth braces. I am an expensive extraterrestrial."
‘‘The ego of the human male is by far the most dangerous aspect of human society.’’
‘‘Death’s biggest surprise is that it does not end the conversation.’’
Her observations are often spot on, often touching, and frequently amusing. Often equally amusing are the responses she receives.
Adina is young, but wise enough never to mention the nightly lessons she will have in the coming years or that fact that she is from another planet that can't be seen. Still others can plainly see that Adina is unusual. It's that very fact that makes her a character that will stay with me for a very long time. While almost all reviewers refer to this as a work of science-fiction, I'm still unsure. Was Adina an alien being or a woman whose brain was rewired by trauma that left her with a unique life experience and take on the world around her? Beautyland works either way, and maybe the fact that I was left wondering made it all that much more impressive.
Tuesday, February 4, 2025
By Any Other Name by Jodi Picoult
In 1581, young Emilia Bassano is a ward of English aristocrats. Her lessons on languages, history, and writing have endowed her with a sharp wit and a gift for storytelling, but like most women of her day, she is allowed no voice of her own. Forced to become a mistress to the Lord Chamberlain, who oversees all theatre productions in England, Emilia sees firsthand how the words of playwrights can move an audience. She begins to form a plan to secretly bring a play of her own to the stage—by paying an actor named William Shakespeare to front her work.
Told in intertwining timelines, By Any Other Name, a sweeping tale of ambition, courage, and desire centers two women who are determined to create something beautiful despite the prejudices they face. Should a writer do whatever it takes to see her story live on . . . no matter the cost? This remarkable novel, rooted in primary historical sources, ensures the name Emilia Bassano will no longer be forgotten.
Sunday, February 2, 2025
Life: It Goes On - February 2

Are you old enough to remember the show Bewitched and the character Gladys Kravitz? That's kind of what I feel like when I'm sitting here at my desk, looking out the front windows, perhaps judging what the neighbors are doing. What age was I when I started to get cranky about someone who wasn't visiting me parking in front of my house?
Last Week I:
Listened To: Beautyland by Marie-Helene Bertino, as recommended to me by Mini-me. I'm going to have to get more recommendations from them! Today I started Cozy Minimalist Home, a book I actually own in print and have read; but since I'm working on the room hushing with the group right now, I decided a reread might be a good idea.
Watched: We finally saw Wicked last night. We both enjoyed it; thought the costumes, cinematography, and acting was good. But the Big Guy thought a lot of the songs were really dull, which I know is blasphemous to those who love the show.
Read: I finished Jodi Picoult's By Any Other Name and highly recommend reading Picoult's notes at the end of the book. Yesterday I started Thirty Umrigar's latest, The Museum of Failures.
Made: For the most part, cleaning out the freezer remains the goal so we've been throwing together some kind of strange things. Except for the night that BG came home from Costco with mini-corn dogs so we had those for supper. Because we're grown adults who eat like children some days.
Enjoyed: Tuesday was a milestone bday for BG so we went out to eat with friends. It also happened to be the 15th anniversary celebration for a local restaurant so we joined in that celebration. It was quite an event, with four courses, three wines from Italy introduced to us by their supplier and the owner of the vineyards where the wine is produced, and a visit to our table by the chef. Great food and a lot of fun. We even came home with a bottle of wine!
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This Week I’m:
Planning: Room hushing continues. Last week was the bedroom. For the most part, I really love my bedroom. But as soon as I cleared the surfaces, I could really see somethings that I wanted to do in there. So I've redone my gallery wall, switched chairs, redone the top of my dresser and bookcase, and reorganized the way my jewelry is stored/displayed. I'll join in again with whatever room is being done this week, but I'm also working on Go Simplified's calendar for working your way through your home. January was bathrooms; February is entertaining spaces (this week is china and silver - will this be the time I finally part with one of my sets of china?).
Thinking About: Our cat had surgery on Friday. She came through just fine, but it's really gotten me thinking about what life will be like when she's gone. We likely won't get another pet. I won't miss cat hair everywhere, litter boxes, and all of the other gross cat things. But golly I'm going to miss having a sweet girl curled up at my feet while I sleep or want to be snuggled first thing in the morning.
Feeling: I took a half day off Friday and will be off again tomorrow...just because. It feels so good to be at Sunday and not be spending any time today thinking about work tomorrow.
Looking forward to: BG's bday celebration with family this weekend. We're not going to have the friends with us that I was planning on, but I have a lot of fun things planned and he's going to be so surprised.
Question of the week: How's your reading going so far this year? Even though I felt like I was reading more, I only managed to finish five books in January.