Wednesday, October 30, 2024

The Friday Afternoon Club by Griffin Dunne

The Friday Afternoon Club
by Griffin Dunne 
Read by Griffin Dunne 
12 hours, 19 minutes
Published June 2024 by Penguin Publishing Group

Publisher's Summary: 
At eight, Sean Connery saved him from drowning. At thirteen, desperate to hook up with Janis Joplin, he attended his aunt Joan Didion and uncle John Gregory Dunne’s legendary LA launch party for Tom Wolfe’s The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test. At sixteen, he got kicked out of boarding school, ending his institutional education for good. In his early twenties, he shared an apartment in Manhattan’s Hotel Des Artistes with his best friend and soulmate Carrie Fisher while she was filming some sci-fi movie called Star Wars and he was a struggling actor working as a popcorn concessionaire at Radio City Music Hall. A few years later, he produced and starred in the now-iconic film After Hours, directed by Martin Scorsese. In the midst of it all, Griffin’s twenty-two-year-old sister, Dominique, a rising star in Hollywood, was brutally strangled to death by her ex-boyfriend, leading to one of the most infamous public trials of the 1980s. The outcome was a travesty of justice that marked the beginning of their father Dominick Dunne’s career as a crime reporter for Vanity Fair and a victims' rights activist.

And yet, for all its boldface cast of characters and jaw-dropping scenes, The Friday Afternoon Club is no mere celebrity memoir. It is, down to its bones, a family story that embraces the poignant absurdities and best and worst efforts of its loveable, infuriating, funny, and moving characters—its author most of all.

My Thoughts: 
Back in 1985, the Big Guy and I went to a see a movie called After Hours, starring Griffin Dunne (and a cast of other well-known actors). It was odd (BG was prone to taking me to odd movies at the time), but I've never forgotten it or Dunne. But I've been more familiar, over the years, with his father, Dominick (a prolific author), and his sister, Dominique (who is best known for her role in Poltergeist and her murder), his uncle, John Dunne (who I knew through his aunt's book) and his aunt, Joan Didion. 

Even without that knowledge, if I'd have been walking through the bookstore and seen this book cover, I would definitely have picked it up. Doesn't it just scream "we have interesting stories to tell!"

And it does. From the years spent growing up among the movie and literary elite to his famous aunt to he and his sister's Hollywood careers to his father coming out as gay to his uncle's suicide to his friendship with Carrie Fisher, Dunne has lead a life filled with experiences that brought out every human emotion. He does a commendable job of telling his stories with humor and honesty. He doesn't hide away his own shortcomings nor those of his family and friends. 

It is his sister's death that captures the largest part of the book. Dunne details the toxic relationship she had with the boyfriend who killed her, the horror that was living through the subsequent trial (all while Dunne was filming Johnny Dangerously with Michael Keaton), and the fall out of the trial. Dunne reading the audiobook makes that period all the more heartbreaking. Strangely, though, all of this doesn't weigh down the book - by this point Dunne has already shared plenty of darkness. But even in that darkest of times, there were still moments of humor - humans seem to need that to survive times of trial and I could relate to that need. 

Did I judge a book by its cover? Yes, I did and this one lived up to the bar that cover set. And the book gave me exactly what the cover told me it would and so much more. 




Tuesday, October 29, 2024

Life: It Goes On - October 29

Happy Tuesday! Yeah, yeah, I'm late again...and I really have no excuse for not getting this done on Sunday other than that I was getting a lot accomplished around the house that seemed more important, although most people will never even notice what I got done. 

Last week was a productive week: I finished the chairs for Mini-him and Miss C and got those delivered along with a table leaf, I cleaned out guest room closets and my office with the result being a giant bin of stuff to the Goodwill and breathing space in all of those rooms. I cleaned and cleaned inside and worked on cleaning up the last of the dead plants outside. What didn't I get done? Any book reviews or, for that matter, much reading. Just cannot get myself to sit down and focus on books lately. 

Last Week I: 


Listened To: Long Island by Colm Tobin and Learned by Heart by Emma Donoghue. 


Watched: Volleyball, baseball, and football. And then I threw in some Bridgerton


Read: Sandwich by Catherine Newman.


Made: It was another one of those weeks where we didn't seem to cook a whole lot. We're really trying to use up things in the freezers to make room for the holidays so we've had potstickers, chicken nuggets, veggie rolls. We did get one last BLT with vine-ripened tomato last week. 


Enjoyed: Friday night I joined Mini-him, Miss C and her parents (the Big Guy was off playing with his old band) for dinner, a trip to the giant liquor store that we call Booze 'R' Us (it's in an old Toys 'R' Us building), and then one last cocktail. It's lovely to get to know Miss C's parents better; they are lovely people. 

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This Week I’m:  


Planning: Work will continue this week on getting things ready for company to arrive in four weeks for the week of Thanksgiving. 


Thinking About: We're looking at countertop and sink options for the kitchen and paint colors for the cupboards. It's both fun and frightening - a big expense and a lot of work (if we paint the cupboards ourselves, which is currently the plan). 


Feeling: Excited. A couple of months ago BG dropped a glass soap dispenser into the pedestal sink. Guess what broke! Hint: it wasn't the soap dispenser. Saturday we picked up a vanity and new sink for the powder room and Thursday it gets installed. It's a silly thing to be excited about but I've regretted that pedestal sink almost since we built this house 28 years ago - even a powder room needs some storage.  


Looking forward to: Dinner tomorrow night to celebrate our anniversary - 42 years! 


Question of the week: Have you ever painted cabinetry? I've seen some people have so-so results and others have great results so I'm looking for all of the hints and tips anyone can give me. 

Sunday, October 20, 2024

Life: It Goes On - October 20

Happy Sunday! It's a beautiful fall morning here - temperatures are perfect and the sun is that wonderful soft golden color. The trees are changing colors and the neighborhood is bustling with activity. 

The only down side is that those activities (including ours) are all about getting lawns and gardens ready for winter. Yesterday we pulled up the tomato, pepper, and zinnia plants so the gardens are already looking brown and sad. 

I saw a post the other day of a woman doing something in those spaces to make them less depressing for the rest of the fall and I was definitely, absolutely going to do that in our spaces...except I can't remember what it was she did. Which is a peek into the way my brain works (or doesn't) these days. 

Last Week I: 

Listened To: I finished The Hazelbourne Ladies Motorcycle and Flying Club and started Colm Toibin's latest, Long Island (which is a follow up to Brooklyn). 


Watched: Baseball, volleyball, and football (although I had to shut off my Huskers yesterday). 


Read: Grief Is For People by Sloan Crowley. 


Made: I'm pretty sure that I did not make a single thing this week...either the Big Guy was doing the cooking or I doing some version of eating out. 


Enjoyed: Book club Tuesday, getting my hair done Wednesday, dinner out with a coworker on Thursday, dinner and drinks on the deck at some friends' Friday night. I went to a class reunion last night but I can't say that I enjoyed that; got strong armed into going but the people that I would most like to see and reminisce with weren't there. It was an unusually busy week! 

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This Week I’m:  


Planning: I'll probably spend most of my free time this week working on the house - there are so many things I want to get done before our Thanksgiving guests arrive. Important things like cleaning out guest room closets! 


Thinking About: Was telling someone that I was getting a couple of vaccines Friday and had two more scheduled for a couple of weeks from now to which she replied "well, when you start speaking Russian, I won't be surprised." Can't stop thinking about that - it's people like her that have caused whopping cough cases to surge in my county and me to feel like I needed the vaccine. Also, if I wake up one day speaking a foreign language without having to pay for Duelingo, yea me! 


Feeling: Ready for the two days I schedule off this week just because I have time to burn before the end of the year. 


Looking forward to: We're going to see a one-man performance of Dracula Saturday night. 


Question of the week: Anyone have any good ideas as to how we get people to put as much money into doing good as they do into political campaigns? I'm so over the tv ads, the vitriol on social media, and my mail box being filled with flyers. 

Thursday, October 17, 2024

Life: It Goes On - October 17

Happy Thursday! It's been that kind of week when I'm only just now getting around to a post I normally get done on Sunday! But this week's goings on are for another day...today I'm playing catch up. 

Last Week I: 


Listened To: Vampires In The Lemon Grove and I started Helen Simonson's latest, The Hazelbourne Ladies Motorcycle and Flying Club. We also listened to some podcasts while we were on the road...but I already can't remember which ones. 


Watched: Our great-nephew play t-ball. He's six, but plays on a team of six-and-under kids, so he's playing with a lot of four-year-olds. He towers over them! Also, I'd forgotten how hilarious little children are in their early attempts at organized sports. 


Read: Guys, I'm doing such a poor job at picking up a book and actually finishing it. I keep starting things then realize I need to be reading something else before it goes back to the library or my early copy is no longer available. 


Made: My take on Molly Yeh's beans and greens with runny egg, which we both really liked but I'll need to tweak some when we make it again. 


Enjoyed: A three-day weekend trip to Columbia, MO. We got to spend Friday afternoon and dinner with our friends there; went to that t-ball game; hung out at my niece's; went to a winery on a bluff overlooking the Missouri River and then went to a landing that sits right on the river to listen to a band; stopped by Miss H's on our way home; and picked up some new-to-us dining room chairs in K.C. that I found on Facebook Marketplace. A busy, but very fun weekend! 

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This Week I’m:  

Planning: Now that I have those new chairs, the two that I prepped for painting can go to Mini-him and Miss C so I need to get those painted. 


Thinking About: Politics. Part of me is trying hard not to because it's so stressful. The other part of me is wanting to get more involved. 


Feeling: Nervous. I got talked into going to my class reunion this weekend and I'm honestly not looking forward to it. Why did I do this to myself?!


Looking forward to: Several fun things that I'm hoping to do this weekend. More on that on Sunday. 


Question of the week: Am I the only one who feels like time is speeding up? We have so many things I want to get done before we have a house full of people for Thanksgiving and there's been so little time to actually get to any of it. 

Thursday, October 10, 2024

Vampires In the Lemon and Other Stories Grove by Karen Russell

Vampires In The Lemon Grove and Other Stories 
by Karen Russell
Read by Arthur Morey, Joy Osmanski, Kaleo Griffith, Mark Bramhall, Michael Bybee, Romy Rosemont, and Robbie Daymond
9 hours, 15 minutes
Published February 2013 by Alfred A. Knopf

Publisher's Summary: 
In the collection's marvelous title story, two aging vampires in a sun-drenched Italian lemon grove find their hundred-year marriage tested when one of them develops a fear of flying. In "The Seagull Army Descends on Strong Beach, 1979", a dejected teenager discovers that the universe is communicating with him through talismanic objects left in a seagull's nest. "Proving Up" and "The Graveless Doll of Eric Mutis" - stories of children left to fend for themselves in dire predicaments - find Russell veering into more sinister territory, and ultimately crossing the line into full-scale horror. In "The New Veterans", a massage therapist working with a tattooed war veteran discovers she has the power to heal by manipulating the images on his body. In all, these wondrous new pieces display a young writer of superlative originality and invention coming into the full range and scale of her powers.

My Thoughts: 
Book two for Readers Imbibing Peril (R.I.P.). Yea, me; although, I must admit that this was a complete coincidence. This is one of those books that I've been wondering about for a long time (a decade, actually), but it was getting an advanced copy of Russell's latest work (The Antidote) and having a break in the audiobooks I'd requested from the library, that finally had me picking this one up. 

Maureen Corrigan (NPR) had this to say about the first story in this collection: "The title story kicks off this collection by doing the near impossible: making me care about vampires, a breed more overexposed these days than Labrador retrievers." I agree, despite my major skepticism when the story began. Poor Clyde is a vampire who can no longer transform into a bat and fly; instead he spends his days and nights sitting at a table at the back of a lemon grove, where no one except one young worker, seems to be aware of what he is. He lives for the arrival of his wife, who descends nightly from a cave on high, along with thousands of other bats. It was his wife who made him understand that they could survive without blood and the two of them discovered that lemons work as a kind of analgesic for their kind. But has their marriage reached its end? And will the reality of that cause Clyde to do the unthinkable? I liked this story much more and it set the bar high. 

Like all collections of short stories (at least in my experience), not all stories are equal. I must admit that I gave up on "The New Veterans," which felt to me like it was dragging. But both "Proving Up" and "The Graveless Doll of Eric Mutis" impressed me with their originality and twists. In "Proving Up," Russell has set her story in Nebraska (something she has repeated in The Antidote), which always makes a story more interesting to me. Each of these stories is a work of fantasy, a genre that you know I often struggle with, but here the fantasy element almost never overwhelmed the story. I mean, even a vampire just felt like a sad old man to me! 

Perhaps my favorite thing about this collection was the fact that each of the stories was read by a different reader and each felt absolutely perfectly suited to the story they read. 

I more eager than ever to get back to The Antidote and Russell's Swamplandia, which I own...somewhere (is it in print? is it on my Nook?).