And yet, for all its boldface cast of characters and jaw-dropping scenes, The Friday Afternoon Club is no mere celebrity memoir. It is, down to its bones, a family story that embraces the poignant absurdities and best and worst efforts of its loveable, infuriating, funny, and moving characters—its author most of all.
Wednesday, October 30, 2024
The Friday Afternoon Club by Griffin Dunne
And yet, for all its boldface cast of characters and jaw-dropping scenes, The Friday Afternoon Club is no mere celebrity memoir. It is, down to its bones, a family story that embraces the poignant absurdities and best and worst efforts of its loveable, infuriating, funny, and moving characters—its author most of all.
Tuesday, October 29, 2024
Life: It Goes On - October 29
Last week was a productive week: I finished the chairs for Mini-him and Miss C and got those delivered along with a table leaf, I cleaned out guest room closets and my office with the result being a giant bin of stuff to the Goodwill and breathing space in all of those rooms. I cleaned and cleaned inside and worked on cleaning up the last of the dead plants outside. What didn't I get done? Any book reviews or, for that matter, much reading. Just cannot get myself to sit down and focus on books lately.
Last Week I:
Listened To: Long Island by Colm Tobin and Learned by Heart by Emma Donoghue.
Watched: Volleyball, baseball, and football. And then I threw in some Bridgerton.
Read: Sandwich by Catherine Newman.
Made: It was another one of those weeks where we didn't seem to cook a whole lot. We're really trying to use up things in the freezers to make room for the holidays so we've had potstickers, chicken nuggets, veggie rolls. We did get one last BLT with vine-ripened tomato last week.
Enjoyed: Friday night I joined Mini-him, Miss C and her parents (the Big Guy was off playing with his old band) for dinner, a trip to the giant liquor store that we call Booze 'R' Us (it's in an old Toys 'R' Us building), and then one last cocktail. It's lovely to get to know Miss C's parents better; they are lovely people.
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This Week I’m:
Planning: Work will continue this week on getting things ready for company to arrive in four weeks for the week of Thanksgiving.
Thinking About: We're looking at countertop and sink options for the kitchen and paint colors for the cupboards. It's both fun and frightening - a big expense and a lot of work (if we paint the cupboards ourselves, which is currently the plan).
Feeling: Excited. A couple of months ago BG dropped a glass soap dispenser into the pedestal sink. Guess what broke! Hint: it wasn't the soap dispenser. Saturday we picked up a vanity and new sink for the powder room and Thursday it gets installed. It's a silly thing to be excited about but I've regretted that pedestal sink almost since we built this house 28 years ago - even a powder room needs some storage.
Looking forward to: Dinner tomorrow night to celebrate our anniversary - 42 years!
Question of the week: Have you ever painted cabinetry? I've seen some people have so-so results and others have great results so I'm looking for all of the hints and tips anyone can give me.
Sunday, October 20, 2024
Life: It Goes On - October 20
The only down side is that those activities (including ours) are all about getting lawns and gardens ready for winter. Yesterday we pulled up the tomato, pepper, and zinnia plants so the gardens are already looking brown and sad.
I saw a post the other day of a woman doing something in those spaces to make them less depressing for the rest of the fall and I was definitely, absolutely going to do that in our spaces...except I can't remember what it was she did. Which is a peek into the way my brain works (or doesn't) these days.
Last Week I:
Listened To: I finished The Hazelbourne Ladies Motorcycle and Flying Club and started Colm Toibin's latest, Long Island (which is a follow up to Brooklyn).
Watched: Baseball, volleyball, and football (although I had to shut off my Huskers yesterday).
Read: Grief Is For People by Sloan Crowley.
Made: I'm pretty sure that I did not make a single thing this week...either the Big Guy was doing the cooking or I doing some version of eating out.
Enjoyed: Book club Tuesday, getting my hair done Wednesday, dinner out with a coworker on Thursday, dinner and drinks on the deck at some friends' Friday night. I went to a class reunion last night but I can't say that I enjoyed that; got strong armed into going but the people that I would most like to see and reminisce with weren't there. It was an unusually busy week!
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This Week I’m:
Planning: I'll probably spend most of my free time this week working on the house - there are so many things I want to get done before our Thanksgiving guests arrive. Important things like cleaning out guest room closets!
Thinking About: Was telling someone that I was getting a couple of vaccines Friday and had two more scheduled for a couple of weeks from now to which she replied "well, when you start speaking Russian, I won't be surprised." Can't stop thinking about that - it's people like her that have caused whopping cough cases to surge in my county and me to feel like I needed the vaccine. Also, if I wake up one day speaking a foreign language without having to pay for Duelingo, yea me!
Feeling: Ready for the two days I schedule off this week just because I have time to burn before the end of the year.
Looking forward to: We're going to see a one-man performance of Dracula Saturday night.
Question of the week: Anyone have any good ideas as to how we get people to put as much money into doing good as they do into political campaigns? I'm so over the tv ads, the vitriol on social media, and my mail box being filled with flyers.
Thursday, October 17, 2024
Life: It Goes On - October 17
Last Week I:
Listened To: Vampires In The Lemon Grove and I started Helen Simonson's latest, The Hazelbourne Ladies Motorcycle and Flying Club. We also listened to some podcasts while we were on the road...but I already can't remember which ones.
Watched: Our great-nephew play t-ball. He's six, but plays on a team of six-and-under kids, so he's playing with a lot of four-year-olds. He towers over them! Also, I'd forgotten how hilarious little children are in their early attempts at organized sports.
Made: My take on Molly Yeh's beans and greens with runny egg, which we both really liked but I'll need to tweak some when we make it again.
Enjoyed: A three-day weekend trip to Columbia, MO. We got to spend Friday afternoon and dinner with our friends there; went to that t-ball game; hung out at my niece's; went to a winery on a bluff overlooking the Missouri River and then went to a landing that sits right on the river to listen to a band; stopped by Miss H's on our way home; and picked up some new-to-us dining room chairs in K.C. that I found on Facebook Marketplace. A busy, but very fun weekend!
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This Week I’m:
Planning: Now that I have those new chairs, the two that I prepped for painting can go to Mini-him and Miss C so I need to get those painted.
Thinking About: Politics. Part of me is trying hard not to because it's so stressful. The other part of me is wanting to get more involved.
Feeling: Nervous. I got talked into going to my class reunion this weekend and I'm honestly not looking forward to it. Why did I do this to myself?!
Looking forward to: Several fun things that I'm hoping to do this weekend. More on that on Sunday.
Question of the week: Am I the only one who feels like time is speeding up? We have so many things I want to get done before we have a house full of people for Thanksgiving and there's been so little time to actually get to any of it.
Thursday, October 10, 2024
Vampires In the Lemon and Other Stories Grove by Karen Russell
Tuesday, October 8, 2024
Trust by Hernan Diaz
At once an immersive story and a brilliant literary puzzle, TRUST engages the reader in a quest for the truth while confronting the deceptions that often live at the heart of personal relationships, the reality-warping force of capital, and the ease with which power can manipulate facts.
Sunday, October 6, 2024
Life: It Goes On - October 6
I got Mini-him's dresser finished (at last!) and we got that delivered to them on Monday. I'm really pleased with how it turned out but completely forgot to take a picture of it before it left our house. One night we switched mattresses, trying to find one that would be better for my back; another night was spent cleaning up potted plants outside so that they will look good for a little longer. On paper, each of these things only takes up one line on the to-do list so I'm always surprised but how much of an evening they can take up. Busy nothings.
Last Week I:
Listened To: Karen Russell's Vampires In The Lemon Grove, which I'll finish today. Next up is Helen Simonson's The Hazelbourne Ladies Motorcycle and Flying Club.
Read: Karen Russell's latest, The Antidote, and Somerset Maugham's Of Human Bondage, which I'm reading as part of a read along with Ti, of Book Chatter.
Made: We're enjoying the last of the tomatoes in BLTs and pasta, the Big Guy cooked up a pork tenderloin and baked potatoes one evening, and I made a pea and bacon pasta, which will be a repeat. Today I've made a peanut butter pie and will make up some pizza cups for dinner tonight with Mini-him and Miss C.
Enjoyed: Dinner out with friends last night at a favorite place and ice cream after at a new-to-us place. A day running errands - the kind of day where you have some time to browse, but also tick a lot of things off of the to-do list. Pumpkins and mums are now on the porch, some Christmas gifts were purchased, and I have the paint for my next project.
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This Week I’m:
Planning: I've got a couple of chairs I want to get painted this week, which will eventually go to Mini-him and Miss C, but maybe not until after Thanksgiving, when I'll need every chair we own.
Thinking About: I RSVP'd to attend my class reunion in a couple of weeks. I was peer pressured into it. How is it that, at my age, I'm still vulnerable to that?
Feeling: Accomplished after a productive weekend but wishing I had another day to get more done while I'm in the groove.
Looking forward to: Seeing family and friends next weekend.
Question of the week: If you live somewhere where winter impacts what you get done, what's one project you're still hoping to get done before it's too cold to be outside?
Thursday, October 3, 2024
I Have Some Questions For You by Rebecca Makkai
But when the Granby School invites her back to teach a course, Bodie is inexorably drawn to the case and its increasingly apparent flaws. In their rush to convict Omar, did the school and the police overlook other suspects? Is the real killer still out there? As she falls down the very rabbit hole she was so determined to avoid, Bodie begins to wonder if she wasn’t as much of an outsider at Granby as she’d thought—if, perhaps, back in 1995, she knew something that might have held the key to solving the case.
In I Have Some Questions for You, award-winning author Rebecca Makkai has crafted her most irresistible novel yet: a stirring investigation into collective memory and a deeply felt examination of one woman’s reckoning with her past, with a transfixing mystery at its heart. Timely, hypnotic, and populated with a cast of unforgettable characters, I Have Some Questions for You is at once a compulsive page-turner and a literary triumph.
- I requested the audiobook version because I find I have far more time for those than physical or digital books (well, far fewer of them waiting for me to get to them, at least) and I'm so glad I did. Julia Whalen is, as alway, terrific.
- This is a book, ostensibly, about the murder of a young woman years ago. It's actually about far more than that. It's about the way our justice system works (or doesn't); it's about the power of social media to do good and also to destroy lives; it's about the Me-Too movement and the ways men in positions of power can misuse that power; and it's about the ways society discounts and devalues women. Because of the way the book is written, none of it feels forced.
- Throughout the book are interspersed different versions of what might have actually happened to Thalia Keith and every one of them felt believable.
- The book is largely written as though Bodie were writing to a former teacher, her favorite, who she has come to realize may have been acting inappropriately, not just with her, but with other young women as well. It's a terrific red herring.
- There is no happily-ever-after and you know how much I usually like that in a book. And I did...sort of. But it came in a way that made me so frustrated with our justice system, reminding me of the recent executions of men who were convicted but appear to have been innocent.
- There is a little bit of that feeling that Makkai may have been trying to work in all of the talking points. It seems logical in the course of the story, but yet...maybe too much.
- Did all of that work that Bodie and her students do result in answers and new leads just a little too easily? Maybe.
- I felt a little bit like Bodie's back story unnecessary. Not that we didn't need it in the book; it explained why she felt like an outcast. But it could have been something far more ordinary.
Tuesday, October 1, 2024
The Once and Future Witches by Alix E. Harrow
But when the Eastwood sisters―James Juniper, Agnes Amaranth, and Beatrice Belladonna―join the suffragists of New Salem, they begin to pursue the forgotten words and ways that might turn the women's movement into the witch's movement. Stalked by shadows and sickness, hunted by forces who will not suffer a witch to vote―and perhaps not even to live―the sisters will need to delve into the oldest magics, draw new alliances, and heal the bond between them if they want to survive.
There's no such thing as witches. But there will be.
- I'm always happy to read a book about sisters and how life may cause them to grow apart, but the bond will never be broken. In this book, that's true even into eternity.
- Equally, I love a book filled with strong women and this book has a lot of them. Juniper comes in hot (and mad) and remains a force to be reckoned with. Agnes has the kind of anger within her that leaves little doubt that her strength can be counted on, even when she tries to avoid it. But it's Bella, the quiet librarian, who surprises everyone with her strength and her unwillingness to stop trying when it appears all is lost.
- Harrow is an equal opportunity writer when it comes to passing out the ways of witchcraft, pulling in Native American and African American witch ways (for the most part ways that we would recognize as homeopathic and natural remedies). She even allows men the opportunity to use witchcraft. I would have liked to have seen more of these other witches.
- I appreciated that Harrow included gay characters. It felt a little bit like they might have been included as a tool to expand the reader base but it wasn't over done.
- Gabra Zackman's reading of the book. She did an excellent job of voicing the different characters.
- I was really excited to read a book about suffragettes and was looking forward to how that might work with the witchcraft. Unfortunately, the suffragettes were pushed to the side with the emphasis on wanting to bring back witching ways rather than advancing the rights of women. To be fair, the suffragette leaders in this book were the very kinds of rich, white women that themselves pushed out black women in reality and an agenda aligned with their religion. Still, if you're going to write a book with an alternate reality, you could do a lot to blend the two.
- It's a little thing, but I wish Harrow would have landed on the way each of the sister was going to be known. Sometimes James Juniper was just that, other times she was Juniper, and still other times Juni. Agnes was nearly always Agnes, but often Agnes Amaranth. Beatrice's change made more sense; in the beginning of the book, she was almost exclusively Beatrice until she claimed her power and then she became Belle. Except when she was Beatrice Belladonna.
- This is a really long book that I felt could easily have been cut down 100 pages as it often felt like it was repetitive and somethings were just too over the top and could have been left out.
- The last 20-25 minutes or so of the audiobook. It just felt like the story could have been finished up in the final big "scene" with a short epilogue.